made out with anyone....i know...it is sad....but how do i get him to make out with me... he just doesn't know what to do.... it is kind of sad but what should i do to help him....
thanks for the help....
2006-10-02 14:30:47 · 37 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are both 14...
2006-10-02 14:42:03 · update #1
Just sit him down and tell him that youre going to teach him how to make out. Im pretty sure he will love it. Every guy wants to be a good kisser. Just be bold and do it.
2006-10-02 14:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Eugene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the initiative!
If you are the more experienced member in the relationship, it will be easier if you are the one to take the first step. Go slow and have fun doing it. Suprise him with a kiss while watching a movie or another time you two are alone together and see how he reacts. If there are no complaints move forwards from there.
Good luck!
2006-10-02 14:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dylan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take his trousers off and arouse him with your hand, while arousing yourself with the other. Then after a while, climb on top of him, and look into his eyes all the time. Be very gentle, and make sure you are well lubricated.
If you are too shy to do it, smoke a joint together and it will all happen.
If you haven't done it, come and see me for lessons.
2006-10-02 14:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
making out isn't everything and maybe he isn't comfortable making out. it sounds like this is all u want out of the relationship. if it is than break up with this guy instead of using him. it's cruel what u r doing and find a guy who's more experienced so u guys can date for no reason together...u both will have the same goals...sexual pleasure...wow..that's sad.. maybe you should rethink why you date ppl...?
2006-10-02 14:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old are you guys? Maybe he's not ready? Quit pushing the subject, man oh man, girls all over the world ***** about guys pressuring them to do stuff so WE shouldn't pressure them either! He will when he's ready.
2006-10-02 14:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Candace Rideout 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not a big deal but yeah if he hasnt just tried anything then you have to wonder. just tell him that he can do stuff to you but give him limits. cant touch Y and Z and just check back with me every once in a while. if he cant groove on that you may think about moving on.
2006-10-02 14:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no pressure... let him come onto you. You take the pressure off by saying to him that you just want to cuddle and be affectionate, but that right now, you don't need more. It will build from there, unless he is gay
2006-10-02 14:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT?
Why havent you just started making out with him by now? Oh yeah, grab his member...do something. I couldnt live like that.
2006-10-02 14:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take your pants off and weat a short skirt.After a few flashes he might get the message
2006-10-02 14:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by Pauline 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't make him do it if he doesn't want to. If he does, then show him the way you want to be treated and ask him what he likes and take it from there.
2006-10-02 14:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋