The question is...What would you do if you found out that your spouse of 17 years has recently opened a secret bank account in their name only?
2006-10-02 14:27:30 · 9 answers · asked by Starscape 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I'd be concerned. It seems like this person has a secret, and the kind of secret that could possibly destroy the marriage. I'd try to get into marriage counseling right away.
2006-10-03 07:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 17 years of being with someone you should not assume that it is for a bad reason.Maybe they are saving to take you on a trip,or buy you something nice.Or maybe you spend all the money so they have to start stashing it.Usually if someone is cheating money starts dissappearing so i wouldn't worry about it.
2006-10-03 15:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by mommyofsix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something has to be going on, I would definitely find out what it is. Your not suppose to keep secrets from your spouse.
2006-10-02 21:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people need independence so maybe thats what it is about....because in marriage the two become one right? and that then goes for everything owned by the two....like money furniture kids etc.....but maybe this person just wants something that they could call theirs..........there are so many reasons why......and not entirely negative either
2006-10-03 15:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that there planning on leaving this other person, and there getting some funds together first, and if its secret, how do they know about it???
2006-10-02 21:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your a coniver now aren't you if theres secrets going on that are known then they arent secret....
2006-10-02 23:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by CWB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay closer attention!
2006-10-02 21:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by Di 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder who their spending their money on and what else their hiding.
2006-10-02 21:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be really mad and I would try to find out why he/she did this.
2006-10-02 21:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by CR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋