i know this one girl and we talk alot and stuff.
i like her, but she doesn't know (i think)
we kinda flirt around during school and i talk to her more than anyone else.
but whenever someone else suggests that we go out and stuff, she says that 'the guy i like doesn't go to this school', and then she goes on by describing the guy and practically telling me who it is.
does she mean it, or is she just doing something weird?
2006-10-02 14:27:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she's describing you!! Well, if she keeps on about her other crush, try to change the subject and don't flirt that much with her anymore. Maybe you should be more serious and caring around her to give her the point that you're interested. If eventually it comes to that point, ask her out. Don't be polite and let your feelings go to the dump; if she likes someone, so be it; but you like her, and that's what matters.
2006-10-02 14:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds pretty obsessed with this mystery guy. Unless she wants attention, he probably really exists, and she seems to like him a whole lot. You should lay off, find someone else for a while. Someone who talks that much about their crush probably forms all kinds of short-term infatuations to amuse themselves with and then moves on. Could lead to heartbreak on your end...but you should just assume that she does "mean it" when she talks about the other guy.
2006-10-02 14:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its probalby her way of telling u she is not interested and that she only likes you as a friend or she might not even now that u are interested. and is just telling people that she likes this other guy from another school. if u think she is only doing this to make u jealous then u should tell her how u feel it'll b hard but i think if u think this then u should tell her that u might have feeling for her.
2006-10-02 14:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, tell her. Don't hold back. She might be giving you a hint. Write her a poem. It means so much to a girl, believe it or not. I would do anything to have someone that was willing to do this for me. Good luck
2006-10-02 14:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she just wants to be friends and u already are a buddy to her and nothing else. becasue if she was to like u like u she wouldent be saying stuff like that.. the only thing u can do is fined some one else to like.. sorry to have to let u know that and good luck finding someone new :)
2006-10-02 14:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be making it up so I would suggest that you ask her and find out what is really going on. You mentioned other people if you want to talk to her and get to know her you have to ask her.
2006-10-02 14:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think she already likes someone. but, hey, you have the edge, she is with you most of the time and that guy is in totally different school, so take it as your advantage! spend more time with her, find out what she likes, give her a CD with her favorite music, try to find out how much is she in that guy anyway...give her subtle signals that you like her, but dont be pushy...good luck!
2006-10-02 14:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an easy one. Start ignoring her or just give her a quick "Hello" and pass on by. If she seeks you out then you know that she likes you. If she doesn't then you will know.
2006-10-02 14:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a poem or a note, it means alot to us girls...and if she doesn't seem to be into you then her "??"guy is truly real! hope it works out in your favor!
*if you write a poem don't think that it's cheesy whatever you come up with...it's the thaught that counts
2006-10-02 14:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done stuff like that when I was a young kid. But I'd only do it to guys I don't fancy.
2006-10-02 14:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋