Ok so I keep doubting myself socialy. Like i start out in situations fine, but then doubt just takes over slowly and then i cant think of anything to say because i start dismissing everything as lame. where is the problem here?
2006-10-02 14:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by windspirit33 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Develop and gain the habits of being strong, confident, and self-reliant.
Involve yourself in public speaking, mingling with people, and ascertain your presence in all gatherings.
Be More Extrovert than Introvert.
Try to keep cordial relations with one and all.
Try to see men as Men, and ladies as LADIES, instead of just as SEX objects.
Try to control your smoking / drinking / drug habits, if you have any. Too Much Excess of anything will just ruin you whole.
Even breathing exercises and little yoga (from proper instructors / guides), or sincere prayer may help you.
Always SMILE, and pass on the smile on others faces.
2006-10-02 22:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Love Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a feeling you have a problem then you do have a problem. Do not think of it as lame because it is keeping you from possibly doing something you enjoy and from being around people. Ask yourself why are you doubting yourself so much and try and get at the root of the problem. You may want to talk to a therapist about it and see what they think. Feel good about you first and all the other stuff will happen naturally. Good luck hon!
2006-10-02 21:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you have a lack of self-confidence, but that is okay, and you are not lame. No one can become a winner until they have first experienced a few failures, so take that step of boldness whether you feel like it or not. Every new challenge is a bit frightening at first but you can handle whatever you believe you can handle. Have a little faith in yourself and have fun doing it.
2006-10-02 21:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem intelligent you might have social anxiety very common and very easy to overcome.try rational cognitive therapy for help
2006-10-02 21:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by phil d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in a mirror, there is the answer to your question....
IT'S YOU!
YOUR LAME JUST FOR ASKING THIS QUESTION......
NEXT!
2006-10-02 21:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by Answer Man? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
low self esteem
2006-10-02 21:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to forget everything about conduct
2006-10-02 21:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask on here people are assinine.
2006-10-02 21:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by chef spicey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b confident and just say what ur thinking or wat u were gonna say.
2006-10-02 21:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by bbscr12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋