I have been dating my best guy-friends brother for 2 months now, and recently he and my friend got in this major bloody fight, leaving my friend with a broken nose and wrist and my boyfriend with...well a few scratches. I yelled at my boyfriend and he says that I am not blaming his brother for the fight. And I never did, I don't know why. Now when I am around them, my friend walks off sadly, and I want to be with him. I want to be closer to my friend, but am afraid of what my boyfriend might do to him/me if I leave. Please help me!
2006-10-02 14:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by Scratch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly who has been there for you more? and who do you trust more? more than that..who are you ganna let dominate your choice? your boyfriend or your heart...if he is your boyfriend..then you are bound to him for life..its not like you are married...you have the choice to leave him, b/c of his selfish ways...dont let your best friend down all b/c your letting your boyfriend intimidate you...you could be strong for you and your best friend...
2006-10-02 14:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend really needs anger management and some maturity. If you are afraid that he will become violent with you then you need help to leave him IMMEDIATELY!!! Don't do it alone, find family, friends or even a support group to help you leave. This may sound like over reacting, but it is better safe then sorry. Get away from him before he does hurt you.
2006-10-02 21:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by tollerx2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would really like to help you But In this case you were wrong big time. What ever was in your head when you decided to date the brother. You need to stop seeing the both of them a start all over again with someONE else.
2006-10-02 21:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds too violent to me, especially if he would beat his own brother like that - horrible. I think you need to slowly, but surely (and carefully) end the relationship. If he would do that to his own brother, he would do it to you some day.
2006-10-02 21:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go out with either of them. There is obviously anger and violence in this mix, and you would be better off distancing yourself until things get sorted out.
2006-10-02 21:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of that relationship it sounds dangerous!!
2006-10-02 21:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by BeauTEE_ful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family comes first
2006-10-02 21:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by Breanna C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋