im a teenager- my friend who is 2 years older then me gave one of her guy friends my screen name...because she thought we would hit it off. well we talked alot(dont anymore) but anyways i really fell for him.....i know what he looks like and everything and see him in school- but do you think its possible to like someone that you have never actually talked to in person?
2006-10-02 14:08:38 · 21 answers · asked by Ellen 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is possible to have a crush on him. However, you never know if you have a crush on the guy himself, or the guy that's on the computer screen. See, some people have different internet personalities. You can say things, and act a certain way on a computer screen that you might not want to act like in real life, or that isn't even you in real life. The computer depersonalizes the conversation. My boyfriend knows this guy named Andrew, and we'll he thought he was a complete d*ck on the internet, because honestly, he was, it was his interent personality. However, in real life he was a great guy! And this could work vice versa. Perhaps this guy that you think you like, is a great guy in real life, but you can't verify that just by knowing him online. I know when I am online with my boyfriend I'll have kind of a different online personality myself...and the thing is, that if you think you like certain qualities about this guy...they might not be there in the real life version of him. So go ahead and approach your crush, why not? Just use caution, that you might not know him as well as you think you do. You might have a different guy on your hands than you think you do. Good luck!!
2006-10-02 14:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it it possible to "like" a person you have not actually talked with in person. You may like the things this person said to you and he might have said all the things you wanted to hear. But actually knowing him is something totally different. It seems to me you "fell" for the image of him, but remember you really dont know him. Hope that helps
2006-10-02 14:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by sharonekelly22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, You fell for a guys "personality", you would have to meet him in person to see if he's for real, Often its easy to tell a young girl what they want to hear, get to know him personally, and make that decision after long and slow friendship, his true colours will appear, Also how well do you trust your friend? Is she worthy to make a "get to know him" decision for you? take your time, stay sweet and dont let him talk you into anything your not ready for EVER!.....Papillon
2006-10-02 14:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by sissy562003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but you will not be 100% sure untill you do talk to him. I know this because i have it happen. I fell for a guy online and meet him (he went to school by me NOT mine but one close) and we fell for eachother... Everything is possible.
2006-10-02 14:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unlikely, but possible. Don't put a lot of hope into it, just meet and be honest with yourself. Physical chemistry is important; it's not everything but it's not nothing. What if your perfect sole mate is 97 years old? Weighs 300lbs? Has AIDS? Looks aren't everything, but they're something. Nuf said.
2006-10-02 14:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by DayinthePark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that actually happens quite often because unfortunately people say things behind the screen that they would never say or do in person.
2006-10-02 14:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by T S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-02 14:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really.
Your imagination can create something out of nothing and then you are in real trouble when you meet the reality of the real person. Don't do that to yourself! You'll only end up disappointed.
2006-10-02 14:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really easy to do that...I used to have a crush on my friends cousin. But not anymore....because when i did i never actually talked to him then i did... and he was such a jerk.....but hes cute, and smart, and i thought since he was a friend of mines cousin he would be nice too... boy was i wrong... get to know him before you start to like him.... because he might not be what he seems.... e-mail me if you need anymore advice! Please answers my questions too! Thanks~!
2006-10-02 14:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by iloveyou (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 09:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋