I've seen lots of questions about this subject so I've decided to ask one. If a guy is bad in bed do you think the girls should tell them they're bad or tell them there bad but help them learn to work it better. I think the girl should tell the guy how to be more pleserable in bed rather then letting him think he's the king of the world. If any girls have any in bed tips on how a guy could be better let us know.
2006-10-02 14:06:38 · 24 answers · asked by Kendall S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for as for me, I had to teach my husband everything that I like to be done to me. I also show him some pleasurable,thing that I do for him now. If a man doesn't satisfy you in bed but you like him, tell him. Don't keep going trough agonizing sex with him. How can he know if you don't tell him?
The more honest you are with him, the more he will see that you do care for him. That is the bes policy ever. Good luck.
p.s. they also have books that show different positions that you both can enjoy and research together.
2006-10-02 14:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'LL NEVER OUT FOX THE FOX (((( Well, here's a thought....wait until you're married...then learn together how to be good lovers. But unfortunately, we're not that patient, nor that committed in our culture to do this. People would rather hop from bed to bed, then find someone who can really curl their toes, and decide "this must be the one", but in reality, you've only based your relationship on something that takes up less than 5 percent of your time together )))) I am so on board with his answer, that I can't even post my own. I feel just as he does. People are cheating themselves, hopping from pillar to post. Yeahhhh FOX 5*****
2016-03-27 02:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls probably wont tell the guy he's not good in bed, but she might tell her friends, and this all depends on the age of the girl. Certainly older girls usually won;t tell a guy he was no good but will show the guy how to be more pleasurable in bed.
As for letting anyone kno my in bed tips, they're my secrets, that only a few special men kno. :)
2006-10-02 14:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by im_breathless06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notice that most everyone is not specifically answering you.
They say they tell their guys how to do it BETTER... not how BAD they are.
That is a good thing, because when it comes to sex, it is one of the taboos. We'd never say how 'bad' someone is.. just how it can be done better... to hopefully teach them out of being bad. That is called polite. Just as you wouldn't tell a woman how lousy she is... but that you'd like this or that, that you really RATHER she do and how to do it. Just polite.
2006-10-02 14:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is your boyfriend or a "friend", then yall should discuss it, but be gentle with it. Just suggest things in a non-put down way, don't be harsh. I've personally never told a guy he was bad in bed
2006-10-02 14:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by jobs1012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so I have told men that that "we're not sexually compatible." I try to encourage them to do certain things. But, let's face it...some people just can't figure it out. If you want to be really awsome in bed, then concentrate on pleasuring her. It's usually the selfishness that makes it bad. Oh, and nothing should be "fast as a bunny." :)
2006-10-02 14:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell them in a sublte way. Don't tell them that they are bad, but show them how it would feel better. Guide their hands, tell them verbally what to do (gently, not in a nagging or bossy way), help them do what feels good. For the guys who want to know how to be good, it's easy....tune into the girl and what she is feeling, watch her body language and listen to her. It should come fairly easily if you're paying attention to what she likes. Focus more on making her feel good and you'd be surprised how good that makes you feel.
2006-10-02 14:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by tollerx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first was terrible and I always had to fake it and I realized that even though I succeeded in giving him false praise, I got crap. So from then on, I decided that I'm not willing to tolerate bullshit anymore. I'm very good at faking it but it's not something I plan on doing anymore.
My current bed partner knows he's good. I always remind him =]
2006-10-02 14:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NEVER tell a man he's lousy in bed. It bruises his ego terribly! Just tell him what you want when you are in bed, then he'll get the hint on how to please you. After every session of sex, always kiss him and tell him what a great lover he's been!
2006-10-02 14:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right, but the best thing is that the guys ask, and study the best and sensitive points of women's body, and it is not for all of the women the same, must of the girls simulate the pleasure because they don't want to heart the guys feelings.
ask nobody is perfect.
2006-10-02 14:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by santa s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋