Okay. My boyfriend dumped me on AIM because he likes this other girl. He slow danced with this girl at the Homecoming dance. Now, he dumped me in a chat on AIM. What do I do. In like 6 days, I am going to a party where he is going to be there. What do I do??? Please help me!!
2006-10-02 14:04:13 · 15 answers · asked by Karbare 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I see him at school everyday. What do I do. Come tomorrow, I'm gunna be crying on my friends' shoulders
2006-10-02 14:07:52 · update #1
If this is the way he dump you then he never really did care about you. He is not worth your time and he does not deserve anything from you. In relationships things happens and people get dump but have the respect to tell the person face to face. He has no respect for you nor does he deserves respect from you. I would go to the party, have fun and enjoy your self. Don't worry about him he is not worth your time. You are a good person and this is why him dumping you the way he did bothers you.
2006-10-02 14:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if he dumped you via AIM, he's a total wuss and not worth your time. He dumped you because he's an insensitive, selfish idiot...or, he just is a better match with this other girl who will put up withi his sh*t. It doesn't mean the other girl has something you don't. It RARELY has anything to do with you.
But go to the party with a group of your girlfriends. Expect that he and that girl will be there. Don't EVER act like you're ignoring them and don't EVER stalk/stare at them. Just enjoy yourself and know that once you graduate, you probably won't remember his name.
2006-10-02 14:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...
you go to the party and show him that you're over him
basically tell him (not literally) that you dont care that he dumped you, he's most likely then to want you back because you dont want him anymore
im not 1000% sure, but its pretty likely
jus go to the party and have a good time
when u see him, dont evan mention that
try n flirt with other guys, close to being in front of him
then he'll know what he's missing
good luck
hope he takes you back :)
2006-10-02 14:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie this guy is not for you!
He is not good enough.
You don't deserve to be with a person that would do you that way.
Forget him and move on.
There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Go for somebody new!
2006-10-02 14:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the party and have you a new guy,make him wish that he never gave you up.But never take him back,you deserve better than the likes of a guy that can't tell you face to face.
2006-10-02 14:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, i wouldnt worry about him, he dumped u on AIM that doesent say much, i would never do that to a girl
2006-10-02 14:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by Dylan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head up high and don't let anyone see you cry. Life is too short to worry with him. Besides sounds like he has no class.
2006-10-02 14:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Go to the party and have fun. Ignore them.
2006-10-02 14:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, dont let him see you upset about him....that would be the worst thing you could do girl. Like some of the others said,..hold your head up and dont let it show. Good luck...
2006-10-02 14:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's one of those "I'll go out with you until someone better comes along" type jerks, do yourself a favor and just forget he exists, ignore him and see how he feels.
2006-10-02 14:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋