Ok well I just got a boyfriend last Tuesday and well even though it's October, I just don't know what to get him because him and I are the new couple in High school and he's in 10th grade and I'm in 9th grade and I don't know what to get him. All I know is that we both share our feelings and love to eachother but I don't know what to get him. Can someone help me please because I have been in relatioships with other boys but it never works out great and this relationship is the best one I ever had so far and honestly don't want to ruin it for him and I because it will be the first Christmas I ever had with him and he loves me more than anyother girlfriend he ever had because I'm more understandable,smart,caring for others and myself,like to have fun,shy,and love sports and I suport him and other people even in their though times adn I love to cheerup people a lot and is possitive. But I mean this is so nerve wreking for him and I and we don't want it to be ruin at all. So please help me
2006-10-02 13:58:38 · 14 answers · asked by navydaugh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take it slow.
treat yourselves to a burger and soda.
take your time getting to know him more.
2006-10-02 14:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by doe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well nervewracked/wrecked, the price is the key. Are you doing this out of savings/parents' purse/or job?
a) Don't give him "yourself" a body present is a loser.
b) Real - time impression: get a job - even if in the neighborhood etc cf. babysitting. He'll dig why you can't see / talk with him and be impressed. You are not a free loader.
c) Possibility - have parents/guardian agree to stay in bedroom and you cook him dinner.
d) Funky - you open the door/carry his books etc. alternate Tuesdays.
e) Mystery - There are 12 days of Christmas. Let him draw 1 for each day. I.E. get a secret email acct. - 1 day would be the 1/2st.
2006-10-02 21:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see...this is the EXACT reason i am against dating when it comes to the babies. Tuesday.....and today is Monday. Not even a good solid week or a good solid month none the less and you are worried about a X mas gift. I can't even begin to think what constitutes this deep love you share...please just chill and put some perspective on this. Put this up again in Mid November with a relationship status / update and THEN we can talk.
2006-10-02 21:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geeees, you only knows him for about a week only and you are already deeply in love...... and you are fearful of losing or ruin the relationship. It takes time to know what this guy would like in such short time. My suggestion is to take some phote shots with him and have it framed up. It is no point giving something that he doesn't like or finds it shildish. Photo are taken with happy memories and normally with someone close.
Once you knows him better than you can decide on other sentimental things.
2006-10-02 21:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off darlin, you can't love someone in a week. You remind me of me at that age. He will break your heart.......
I know you won't listen to that, but it's true. You are to young to LOVE someone in that WAY! Oh well, a good present i think would be a gift card to somewhere he likes to shop, a item from a sport he likes(like a base ball bat), a nice watch, if you have $$$ take him to do something outdoor's-adrenaline like bungee jumping, or hang gliding ect...
If you actually know what he likes after only a week! Get him something along the lines of his interests. Such as Music-take him to a concert of a group he likes.
Good luck darlin, don't let him break your heart.
2006-10-02 21:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by alimanya19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing your other realtionships ended because you think too far ahead. Take it easy and enjoy the time as it goes as opposed to worrying about that far in the future. Your thoughs should be more along the lines of, "Hey, should I leave him a note in his locker." In a few weeks, maybe think about whether or not to go to a Halloween party. But Christmas...that's far away.
2006-10-02 21:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I beleive whatever you get him he will like it. If he loves you and you love him there shouldnt be a problem. Does he have a favorite team? Does he like xbox games? Anything that you think he might like would be good for him I think. And get him a card to expressing how you feel.
2006-10-02 21:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he told all this stuff in 1 week , man i don't have any recpect for him !
anyways buy something for him which is important for you and show how much you love him
if he undrestand it, it's mean you find a right one
good dinner togather and rent some hotel room for night maybe make it better for you lovers.
don't try something so new , it's not worth it for special times
sorry for my bad english
gl
2006-10-02 21:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Soap 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gift certificates are always good. You can't go wrong with them. Find out where he loves to shop.
2006-10-02 21:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by Leila P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is way too early you only been dating a week. Wait until December.
2006-10-02 21:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well my friend did this for her boyfriend... and i would have cut my arm off for one.. but make a little "coupon" book... and make them like.... Good for 20 slow, sweet kisses... or osmething like that..... chocolate or other gifts just don't add up to pure love......
2006-10-02 21:02:29 · answer #11 · answered by tyler15463210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋