having sex with some woman in her bedroom last night when I came over for a visit. I came unannounced & I just walked in but when I saw them I just ducked back out & went home. My parents are still together & I have 8 sisters & one brother all under the age of ten. Should I tell my dad about this?
2006-10-02 13:30:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What kind of a girl R U?
R U sick minded lady, who is just playing with our emotions and wasting our time in asking such stupid and silly questions. U've asked fol questions; that shows your mentality: -
I just found out...?
I caught my mom...?
I found gay porn on his computer...?
What should I do with my nephew?!?!?I just found out...?
Yahoo friends u can see his profile and check the creepy thins.
2006-10-02 13:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sheena 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At this stage of the situation silence is golden. Nothing but heartache will ensue if you tell. It will hurt everyone. If howvever, down the road your Mom decides to divorce your Dad I think I would tell him so that he finds out from you rather than someone else. Your Mom may have been just experimenting,however, it's still cheating. Right now I would not go there.
2006-10-02 20:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Shaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! That really sucks that you had to see that. Did she see you? I would probally talk to her about it first before you tell your dad. That way you can ask her all the questions you have and find out if that's the way it's gonna be from now on and ask her what she thinks your dad is going to say. Maybe he knows and doesn't care. Some guys like that sort of thing.Many of them don't consider that cheating being that its with the same sex.
2006-10-02 20:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by lexi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!. That is a tough one (and funny).
Was the other girl at least, ok?
I think that you have a good business opportunity here.
In all seriousness, I think that you should stay out of it. Wait and see what happens next.
It could have been all just a "bad dream".
2006-10-02 20:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not tell your father. You do need to talk with your mother about it.. That's her call to inform him of this extra actives. Sorry you had to catch your mother doing something however in life you can't tell who will cheat first.
Give her the option in telling.. let her know if she doesn't end it or tell him you will point blank.
2006-10-02 20:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very hard situation. Maybe you should talk to your mom, if you feel comfortable. If it is something you can live with with out talking to her then leave it alone. It may very well tear apart the family that the young one have. I would definitely talk to her about it. Good luck!
2006-10-02 20:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it this is your parents problem. If they are having marriage problems and your mom doesn't know her sexuality thats not your problem you don't want the stress. Sooner or later your dad is going to find out.
2006-10-02 20:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should discuss this with your mother first. Ask her what she really wants. If she still loves your father, she should not do this again. If she intends to see her new lover, it is better to tell your dad. Lying to the others is not good.
2006-10-02 20:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHOA!!!!
u better tell your father. thats wild. was your moms' mate hot? lol but seriously, u have to tell your father. its only right that he knows. now i pray that he doesn't go al bundy on her, trying to kick her @$$ every time he gets a chance. its only right that your father knows. or u can have a sit down, a the three of you guys where your the moderator and just go on from there.
2006-10-02 20:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by wizeguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Dad cheating is cheating with or with out kids he needs to know and have the choice what to do about it.
2006-10-02 20:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋