I kinda have 2 boyfriends, but they know about each other and they don't care that I have 2. Is this considered cheating? THEY don't care!
2006-10-02 13:30:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only possible reason that two guys wouldnt care about that is that they also have girls on the side. Maybe you already know that, but it has to be true. Maybe you like that kind of lifestyle, but make sure to look inside yourself, and make sure you really are happy. I think there are some people who can be happy this way, but not forever. You may have some self esteem issues if you are attracting these types of people to yourself. A deep relationship with one person is more healthy in my belief. You should get counseling of some kind to just keep yourself in check. These kinds of relationships do not generally lead to happiness, just giving you my honest opinion
2006-10-02 13:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sam S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not cheating in my book. The fact that you're all so open minded is great! I know there's no way I'd be happy if my boyfriend had another girlfriend, but if you guys are, good on ya! While everyone's happy, just lap it up and enjoy yourself, you only live once.
2006-10-02 20:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not considered cheating but it think its stupid either somebody desperate and dont want to lose you or they really have alot of feelings for ya. But enjoy that while it lasts because most people would mind I guess you got it good for now.
2006-10-02 20:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is considered cheating. They might not see anything really wrong with it, but I suggest dedicating yourself to just one of them. That way, there's enough love for him without having to spread it around.
2006-10-02 20:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by SwinkSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you never explicitly say that they're your only boyfriend or something. By calling them a boyfriend, it's implying exclusivity. Either way, nothing that I'd want to tell all my friends for sake of jealousy or them calling you a slut behind their backs. Only pick one to show off.
2006-10-02 20:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong on all levels. How old are you? You can't love either of them if you aren't dedicated to just one. That is very strange that they don't care, but yes it is wrong. You should dump both of them and find a normal guy who only wants you to be with him.
2006-10-02 20:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Eli 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its wrong. it is cheating. even though they say they don't care they do deep down. u r just ruining both of ur relationships. and even if they really don't care now they wil care eventually.
unless they r friends in which case they just want a threesome
2006-10-02 20:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by neverland22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They may act like they don't care but the do and just think if they know you have another...what make you think you are the only one? maybe that's why they don't care !!!
2006-10-02 20:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by classy chic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only 2 ??? you should have 4 or more. What are you thinking
2006-10-02 20:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's really weird I agree. I guess not since they don't care I guess not.Weird.
2006-10-02 20:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Sami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋