Hi im this kid in middle school. There's this girl I like(Love?) and i'm Roman Catholic,and i fouund out shes muslim. She's really nice but i think that Muslim/Christian is a lot different than Jewish/Christian so I dont know if i should tell her or not.
BTW We know each other well.
2006-10-02 13:26:52 · 21 answers · asked by no surprises 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Recently, these two kids that were got in a big fight about religon. At first i thought it was idiotic, then i started ti think hard about it, and it made me wonder. THAT'S why i posted this.
2006-10-02 13:36:57 · update #1
Recently, these two kids that were dating got in a big fight about religon. At first i thought it was idiotic, then i started ti think hard about it, and it made me wonder. THAT'S why i posted this.
2006-10-02 13:37:04 · update #2
It really shouldn't matter. Love is love.
2006-10-02 13:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by SwinkSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love knows no boundries, religious, race, cultural, etc.
BUT - Being that you are in middle school though, I would guess both of your parents have a lot of influence on your lives still. If her family is traditional and religious, they may not want their daughter dating ANYONE at such a young age, what are you? 12?
Be her friend, and take your time, you have decades to figure this thing out. But in the meantime, try to see if she feels anything back for you, if she does, you can figure out the parents and religion thing later. Good luck.
And please, always keep an open heart. I think its wonderful that you are not close-minded like so many others.
2006-10-02 13:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by dagmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, it shouldn't be anything that has to be a problem. If you were old enough to get married or something, then you might have to consider how it would affect your life together, how to raise kids, etc. But for now, you're just kids, so it shouldn't even be an issue. Just enjoy each other's company and don't worry about it !
2006-10-02 13:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Schleppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it should matter you are too young to be dating seriously anyway and if it were that big of a deal then I think she wouldn't have been your friend in the first place. you have to keep an open mind about relationships b/c there are many people with diff religions that get a long just fine.
2006-10-02 13:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 09:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you tell her the relationship will be over. I dont know how hard core either of you are about your religions but eventually it will come up. Have fun now but don't expect there to be much of a future in it.
2006-10-02 13:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by MAD MEL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about: staying in neutral territory (avoid dinner at eithers' homes), clean your temp files, casual chat on the msn or whatever, and getting enough time together on campus and off campus. Think Romeo & Juliet, but stay alive and unmarried!
2006-10-02 13:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Nate L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wont work if her parents are strict conservative muslims, because they will think that their daughter going out with a boy(red alert for them) is a bad thing. But if they are alright with it, then everythings cool.
2006-10-02 13:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I wouldn't date a muslim girl and I'm a chrisitan
2006-10-02 13:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it can work if your families let it work....and the two of you can decide on one religion to follow...i am not much for the catholic and i do not know much about muslim...i am baptist...but you believe in the same god....but it is the two of you that would have to work it out...
2006-10-02 13:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is catholic. I am a 100% athiest. I find everything her church does, praying to statues, ESPECIALLY donating money to the church, I will NOT!! call any man "father" other than my father. What works is I keep THESE OPINIONS to myself. I respect her and her beliefs, she respects me and my beliefs. She does NOT try to "save my soul, etc" I do not tell her church where they can go. You just have to work at it.
2006-10-02 13:29:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋