fat Penis. He wants to have anal but I can just only take him with normal intercourse. How can I tell him that I am scared about it?
2006-10-02 13:24:51 · 11 answers · asked by confusedjane1980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is desperate to put it elsewhere(other than vagina), take it in your mouth.
2006-10-02 13:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Tell him straight up. If he actually likes you, it's not going to be a big deal that you're scared. Anyone should know that anal is not everyone's cup of tea, and nobody should be forced to do it if they're not comfortable.
The fact that he's 'fat' could also help you in explaining it to him. Telling him how big he is will definitely boost his ego a bit! So while you're telling him how scared you are, you're also making him think he's a bit of a stud :-) So good luck! And don't do anything you don't want to do
2006-10-02 20:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and tell him right now that is a bit much for you. If he loves you he will understand your feelings. good luck and don't be scared to say what's on your mind.
2006-10-02 20:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by sassy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never understood why a straight guy who HAS a girl with a vag would want to duke her up the butt.
Unless he's secretly gay and is in denial by being with a girl.
Or he has REALLY terrible aim.
2006-10-02 20:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you don't want to and if he has a problem with it, go to the nearest adult novelty store, buy a dildo or vibrator just as big and tell him if he lets you do him first, you'll consider... he'll never bother you about it again!
2006-10-02 20:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by im_shady77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him im sure he will be happy try working up to it with fingers and stuff!!
2006-10-02 20:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say this:
Boyfriend, I am scared of your penis. It's too big for my butt.
Then close your mouth and wait for his response.
2006-10-02 20:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really could have gone w/out knowing that info
2006-10-02 20:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he'll totally understand!
2006-10-02 20:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by mcarterinc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy just tell him no and if he doesn't like it dump him. he should be thinking of you to not just himself
2006-10-02 20:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Scott G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋