I asked this question somewhere else, but it was more about how to stop attracting weirdos cuz I am the weirdo magnet. Many Girls thought they were weirdo magnets until they listened to my stories. People told me I need to: become a nun, produce my own reality show, or write a book, cuz I have an outrageous weirdo story at least once a month. I've lived in several places, but the freaks keep following me...and no, I'm not talking about the internet..I attract these people offline. What's up?
2006-10-02 13:21:24 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Clarifications: I don't date these losers, but they keep coming. I gave a few, but not most, the benefit of the doubt...BIG MISTAKE. Normal is---not a stalker, not someone who puts a blowup doll in his car (for the heck of it), not old married men, not drugdealers/jailbirds, no crazy phobias/drug problems..is that too much to ask for?
2006-10-02 13:28:28 · update #1
someone has to be the weirdo magnet...i guess that is you!
2006-10-02 13:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. Well, first of all, there are a lot of weirdos out there. So you are a magnet walking through a world of dull nails. But what is it about you that they are drawn to? I can think of only one thing right now. You must be an open and free spirit. Most of us anal retentive type females give off vibes that say "don't talk to me" where you probably have a lot of life and joy within you. These odd balls recognize the life force and go toward it like moths to a flame.
2006-10-02 13:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can attract a normal guy. You seem to have two questions:
1. How do you find a normal guy?
2. How do you avoid a freak?
To find a normal guy, DO NOT USE INTERNET. Make friends with your neighbors, or visit your relatives, and ask them to introduce you to nice guys.
To avoid freaks...ask questions before you date. Question like: does he have a job, what does he do? How old is his car? Where does he live?
First dates should be in daylight, and avoid paid entertainment like movies and concerts. You need to talk to the guy, and you can't do that in a theater. On the first date, ask the guy questions that are important to you. Think of it as a job interview. You are interviewing the guy as a candidate for future dating. It is much easier on a first date to be rational, than after 10 dates of holding hands.
2006-10-02 13:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by old c programmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably a lot like me. Super nice, sweet, giving, caring and gentle and a good listener. We attract not so desirable men. I have had a few serious relationships, long lasting, and at first the men seemed great, but once we moved in together, or got married, they turned into different animals all together. Funny is, I allowed it to happen. My point being, is, we bring out the craziness in men because of our personality types. We allow it. Stop. Stop now. Never settle again! You are worth more.
2006-10-02 13:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by darkangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking for something that is not there, the question is "why is all those men that you meet are consider wierdo?".
Is it their lifestyle? looks? communicating with them is like talking to a child?
Maybe the reason is you need to look deep inside of you and see what kind of person you really are. Maybe they are attracted by you, on similar reasons.
Listen, I've been a model for many years, many women are attracted to me for many reasons, but now a have a wonderful gf that see me as a person as her man, not as a pretty-boy. Maybe you should look for what the other person makes you feel as person and a women. I'm sure those "wierdos" are attracted to you for some reasons, and maybe you should feel apprichiated that you are an attractive woman. Just look for that special someone that you are attracted to.
2006-10-02 13:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look elsewhere, honey. You go to a club and meet a weirdo. Go to a new club. You go to a grocery store and meet Mr. Weird Al Yankovic III. Go to a different grocery store. Or approach some cute fun looking dudes yourself and make the first move. You wait around for pancakes, sometimes you get peanut butter crackers. You go for the steak, you may get the steak. You wait for the steak, you get the weird shrimp boat operator and no cocktail sauce. Ya dig?
2006-10-02 13:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be something about your demeanor that attracts these unwanted people to you. So maybe you need to change your style of dress or hang out in different places...something like that. If you're attracting this type all the time, it has to be something about that they're attracted to, ya know? That doesn't mean that anything is "wrong" with you, per se. Just think about what it might be that's causing this reaction and change it, okay?
2006-10-02 13:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thing is...you are probably attracting "normal" guys in the sense that thats what most guys will be like. You don't want a normal guy. You want abnormal. Not in a bad way obviously, but most guys aren't nice, professional, or sane. Most are just sex crazed @$$holes. Guys are nutjobs for the most part. 99.87% are "weird" so of course its going to be hard to find one that is decent and meets your standards. Just make sure you don't lower your standards...and yes, I am a straight guy, but sorry I'm already taken.
2006-10-02 13:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by Orlando Fitzsimmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably bi....I'm a straight guy and I absolutely find women's bodies nicer looking than men..well beside my own body of course lol. I am also curious why you chose Miranda Kerr versus David Beckham....I could say Miranda Kerr Versus Ryan Gosling....and I"m sure you or any other woman(women LOVE Ryan Gosling LOL) would say he looks better than Miranda Kerr lol.
2016-03-27 02:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a lot of instability on the net but no more than real life. the same "wierdos" are out in the bars and cafes like the rest of us. maybe you need to take a break and get to appreciate being alone for a while and reconnecting to yourself.
then again you could always give women a try. just a thought! peace!
Vin
2006-10-02 13:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can weed out certain people by going to certain places or events. I suggest you should pick a different venue for meeting guys. You should quit hanging out where the weirdo's hang out such as bar's and etc. For instance, if you want to meet a guy who is physically fit, join a fitness center, and to meet a guy who is spiritual, join a church, and to meet a guy who is in to art, go to an art show, and etc..
2006-10-02 15:27:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋