2006-10-02 13:20:46 · 10 answers · asked by Ericka C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It's time for you to see a gynaecologist and/or fertility specialist. You or your partner might have a medical problem that's preventing you from conceiving.
2006-10-02 13:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here are a couple things to consider. A lot of couples have a difficult time getting pregnant and some even take more than 3 yrs. Have you tried an ovulation test? They are like $20-30 at the store depending on the one you get. They really do help if you use them right. Another thing to think about, some women do not ovulate every month. So you have less of a chance of getting pregnant than others. I was told this by my OBGYN. If you don't ovulate every month you can't get pregnant the month you don't. And you have to keep in mind, despite what people say, medically known, you are only fertile 3 days out of a month. No matter how easy some people get pregant cuz they just have that kind of luck or don't have luck depending on how you look at it. Does not mean we all do. And yes, as someone else said, just stop trying and just relax. Stress can affect your cycle as well. Also don't have sex like rabbits so to speak lol. The more you have sex the lower his sperm count will be. Get the ovulation kit, and don't have sex for a while before you ovulate and tell him not to releave himself if you know what I mean. Also if he doesn't wear boxers or he wears tight pants tell him that anything that is tight can lower sperm count as well. The tightness cuts off circulation and has an affect on it. As well as hot water. Hot tubs can do it too. These are all things to consider. Here's an idea.... buy an ovulation kit but try not to think about it much don't let it run the time you spend together. You and him go away for a week or two, do something romantic remind each other why you are together. And just get lost in being together. And remember too that God knows what he is doing you will have a baby when the time is right. Good luck!
2006-10-03 02:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all stop tring and start appericatting each other for what you have to offer each other.Try being romantic with each candle light dinners and other ramantic grstures. Also think about adoption and then you will get pregant. But to stop thinking about it and take the stress and see what happens.
2006-10-02 20:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by barbara v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought of doing a detox to get pregnant?
My friend did a detox and her body became healthier and she got pregnant very shortly after.
Myself and another friend.. also did detox before we got married and still concieved almost immediately after marriage WITH the use of contraceptions :)
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If you would like to find out more about the detox, please email me at verityy@yahoo.com
2006-10-04 05:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the book "Taking Control of your Fertility" by Toni Welchler it will help you understand your cycle better
2006-10-02 20:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you in asia?
if you are, maybe try chinese medicine or see an accunpuncturist specialised in fertility issues...
best is to see a western gynae coupled wif accunpunture or chinese medicine.....
hope tis helps..
2006-10-04 22:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by bsou6571 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. .before seeing a specialist, maybe you guys forgot to remove your undies before having sex..
2006-10-02 20:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by sEaN 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop using condoms
2006-10-02 20:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by adnanpk83 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have sex while or close to the time you are ovulating.
2006-10-02 20:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of you needs to be male, one female...
2006-10-02 20:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋