all my friends says that hes way under my leage but i still like him a lot and hes really shy and kinda dorky but wat should i do to get him?
2006-10-02 13:20:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grow-up
2006-10-02 13:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by TONY B 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i have the biggest crush on a senior. He just turned 18 in July and I turned 15 in January! Still a pretty big age difference. Got the same problem, I'm sure he wouldn't ask me out because he's graduating soon :( but I would still like to get to know him and maybe after high school I might bump into him!!
2015-07-29 00:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by jorg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is the number one thing. You have to be confident in yourself to get any guy to notice you. Your friends are not the one dating the guy so they really should not have a say in who you see. It is harsh but friends sometimes can really get in the way of a good relationship. Trust me...I had that problem once or twice. Start up a conversation with him. Invite him out with a group of friends and just get to know him around other people. The rest should fall into place.
2006-10-02 13:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, all of these answers really suck. I dont see how you are being negative or selfish. Anyway, just try talking to him, find out what you have in common, be confident, men are most attracted to a womans confidence. Make direct eye contact when you talk to him, and ask him things about himself, what are his interests etc, but be balanced, you dont want to ask him so many questions that you are interrogating him. Just take a sincere and genuine interest in him, make sure to talk to him, and he will sense your sincerity if you are confident in yourself. Invite him to something too. Or see if he can give you a ride home or something. Good luck.
2006-10-02 13:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See? it rather is the fortunate element approximately being a woman. you are able to seem for persons slightly older and not sense wierd (unlike adult men like myself). you're some distance from naive and you're in all likelihood an exceptionally wonderful individual. attempt to get to appreciate him extra valuable and you will desire to be shocked.
2016-10-15 11:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. Don't worry about him. Sometimes the harder you try to get someone to notice you the more you come across as being needy. Boys do not like needy girls. Try ignoring him. They (boys) like the chase. It is kind of like a game to them. Play hard to get. There is actually a book called The Rules Book. It has some good info in it.
2006-10-02 13:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him?? I had a crush on a guy in high school and years later (after marraige and children) I bumped into him and found out he had had a huge crush on me too, who knew??
It can't hurt to try, think of a good question to ask to break the ice.
2006-10-02 13:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by CHRYSTAL I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ten years from now, when you're both adults, you could maybe have a great relationship. Right now he's too old for you. Would you like to go out with a kid who's in sixth grade? I know it hurts, but sometimes we learn a lot about our feelings from unrequited crushes.
2006-10-02 13:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well have u tried talking to him? if hes shy then u should probably talk to him to break the barrior. just start talkin to him and he might start to like u back. who cares if hes a serior? go for him anyway!!! im going for a guy thats 3 years older then me so y cant u go for a senior? go for it girl!!!!
2006-10-02 13:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by rurouni_kikyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd slit his tires...or if he's that big of a complete dope, and you really are God's gift to men as you think you are, (but you're not) then just saying hi to him should be enough to fluster him and get him to drop his Yu-Gi-Oh cards.
2006-10-02 13:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by Orlando Fitzsimmons 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since that's illegal due to the age difference I'd say let this one go and check out the nice guys in your own class. peace and good luck!
Vin
2006-10-02 13:22:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋