We have been dating for 2 weeks and I really like him and I would like this to turn into a long term relationship and he has said that he feels the same way. We both have been married and divorced twice and neither one us ever want to get married again, so how long should I wait to have sex with him so that he doesn't think I am too easy. But I don't want to turn him off by waiting too long.
2006-10-02 13:18:06 · 17 answers · asked by Texas chic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you both have a lot of relationship experiance and you've already said you're not going to get married. whatever feels right to you. if you feel like it's too soon, it is. If he makes you all hot and bothered and rarin' to go, then go. don't let something silly like a rule stop you. all is fair in love and war.
2006-10-02 13:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
WOW,
Isn't this just the question.
It is not about time, necessarily, but about mutual feelings.
I have found that most women have sex on the first date.
Some wait until the second and a very few wait 2 weeks to
a month. 2+ weeks makes things more memorable and allows
more time for the anticipation to grow before "sealing the deal."
Let him make his move. I mean, all of us men know that it is
the woman who really decides whether or not it is going to
happen, but it up to us to 'cowboy up'.
Now, and this is very important, since you have been married,
if you have kids, DO NOT bring a new guy around and go
having sex with him when the kids are home! I can tell you that
men do not respect a woman who will do this early in a
relationship. It doesn't mean we won't have sex, it just means
we won't respect you. You MUST wait until the relationship
is at least a few months old and things are going well between
you before you even introduce him to your children! This will
earn you more respect from your potential man than you know.
This is, I think, a rarely known trait of men and, of all my friends
over the years, I know of not one exception.
2006-10-02 20:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I waited 7 months with mine... but I was seperated only... so I felt it was important to wait. He did too.
Wait as long as YOU need. When you are ready... you are ready... I don't think an exact number of days/weeks is going to matter.
The longer you wait though... the more special it becomes... :)
2006-10-02 20:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well wait for more than a month but less than four. But if he really loved you he will wait regardless even if it means a year.
2006-10-02 20:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by FAMU GIRL 09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends, I'd wait 4-6 weeks before beginning a sexual relationship with anyone.
2006-10-02 20:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by hamlet_girl_21 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You can wait as long or as short as you want.
2006-10-02 20:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by lady01love 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have sex if you don't plan on getting married. You should remain without sex. Sex was meant for married people. Any excuse will do. This is exactly why people are not getting married today. Everybody want's their cake and eat it too. Just my opinion.
2006-10-02 20:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋
Stand up, expose your snatch to him right now and get it on right now while people are answering your question.
2006-10-02 20:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sheriff Leane 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As soon as possible. Dont be fooled if the stuff is real good he'll stick around.
2006-10-02 20:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by Urntrede frdtrut 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Whenever you and your boyfriend feel like your are ready.
2006-10-02 20:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋