ok, girls are always talking about how guys are shallow and just care about breasts and butts, and that they always judge girls differently based on looks, but aren't girls the same? i mean i asked this question earler about how a girl would react if a guy is checking her out in public depending on whether the guy is good looking, ugly, old, very young, or not very attractive. most of the girls responed that if the guy is attractive they would like it and they would flirt, and some girls even said they'd do that if it was a teenage boy. but if the guy is not very attractive, they'd ignore him, and if he's old or ugly, they mostly said things like 'i'd get the hell outta there' or i'd be like 'ewww stop staring at me!' tell me, is that not hypocrisy?i'm not saying i don't see a difference based on looks, but i wouldnot act that differently. i know not all girls are like that, but enough of them are.
2006-10-02 13:16:37 · 12 answers · asked by hero0fdahouse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not hypocrisy. Males and females do the same things. They ignore if it is not attractive, old or ugly. It will based upon the characteristic of a person, and the environment they grew up. If love will be the first thing to see, maybe they would never see the physical appearance of a person but within the person. Reality check.
2006-10-02 13:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Eiris19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have hit the nail on the head. We women are such shallow beings, it is unbelievable. Because if it isn't looks and money---However, there is something I would like to say to our defense:
First of all, what I see as good looks is not necessarily what another sees as good looks, therefore, I might flirt with a guy another wouldn't.
Secondly, it depends on the age as well: when I was a teenager all that counted where good looks, as I grew older I got wiser, because looks go only skin deep, they can be gone in a flash.
Mostly though, we do what men did to us for a very long time, and it does not feel good to men to be done that way. Men have made sex objects out of women. We have to be slim and curvy and sexy, we cannot afford to get wrinkles when we get older. fashion is designed mostly by men to please a man's eye,etc.etc., so women did get evaluated solely on their looks, and to this day is there still a lot of pressure on females to be slim, look good, look young. We did not do that to ourselves---this was done by men to us. So yes, we might be a bit shallow now---but that's only returning the treatment we received.
And in the end, I have a real good question to ask you too: would you consider dating an obese woman because she has a nice personality? I mean, dating can lead to a relationship, right? So how would you see that? She is a wonderful person who weighs say, 300 lbs, you date her, but then when it comes to sex, what are you going to do? So there are 2 sides to the coin, and therefore you need to objectively see all sides before you truly can say that we women are hipocrytes....
2006-10-02 20:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a hypocrit.....but I agree with you. Women wear revealing clothes and them complain when men look at them.....I don't.....but it they are bumping into other people because they are staring at my breasts at a convention.....well that is a lack of control that is just rediculous.
I freely and fully admit that I have a lot of male tendencies....high testosterone levels compared to most women......my hair grows fast which is ruled by testosterone.......I develope muscle mass quickly...thanks to testosterone...and I assume that the fact that I am visually stimulated is also related to my testosterone level.
Yes, looks are important to me.......of course they are. Who wants ugly babies? I sure as hell don't so I don't sleep with anyone who wouldn't make pretty babies.....
I don't talk about people behind their back, I don't gossip, and I don't back stab......I also don't have a lot of female friends.....the handful I have are good women, not the kind you usually find.
2006-10-02 20:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's because they are girls and not women. Few women in the world, but a LOT of old girls. Just to be fair, a LOT of old boys in the world also, and very few men. But when men and women start mixing with boys and girls......sigh.
Segregation can be a good thing.
2006-10-02 20:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey buddy everyone is hypocritical? lol! just leave to girls be right because they liek it that way not telling them they are wrong or w/e about this stuff! seriously! but most girls get at that they just dont like the cockness of ugly guys!
2006-10-02 20:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tess c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys say the same bout girls, that we're mostly jus after money, or good looks, or the size of their ****'s and how nice their abs are, or wut not, and most girls jus look for a nice decent guy, who will love honor and respect us, despite our faults and whose not only after sex, no matter how they look. Most girls that seem like they are all about the looks really aren't alot of times that's an act they put on.
2006-10-02 20:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's just that we girls like that, just not from old perverts(old men).
2006-10-02 20:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by guardundertaker2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are shallow... guys are shallow....
but it all depends on that person, and not what sex they are.
2006-10-02 20:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by spoof ♫♪ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is different.
2006-10-02 20:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls are crazy and men are stupid -- these things happen.
2006-10-02 20:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋