Hes 18
2006-10-02 13:10:10 · 30 answers · asked by loslonelygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes protection is good. Get a handgun and a permit. 18 is too old for a 15 year-old. That's statutory rape in most states. Wait until you are 21 to worry about the "other" kind of protection. If he won't wait, dump his *ss!
2006-10-02 13:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One thing, he may be a bit old for you. Not necessarily in age, but in maturity. Youre 15 years old, and have plenty of years ahead of you. There are many things the two of you can do that dont involve actual sex. I'm assuming youre a virgin. Do you want to lose your virginity to a boy who's much older than you maturity-wise and age-wise? Again, assuming youre a virgin, you don't have any experience. What if he doesn't have fun having sex with you or you're just not good enough for him? Would you risk him leaving you because of bad sex?
He's 18, and it sounds like he's had much sex before. Sex, no matter if its protected or not, changes relationships. Sometimes its for the better. But being as young as you are and him an adult, it will not end prettily. Just a note, its also illegal. Since he's a legal adult, he could be charged and sent to jail if anyone found out. Which is another thing. If youre going to do it, would you really want it to be a secret?
Think it through. What are your morals? How far will you go just for this boy, or would you do absolutely anything for him to make him happy, including sex? I highly recommend you dont do it. Find some other activities that dont involve direct intercourse. Mutual masturbation, oral, or just classic making out can imitate the romantic and lustful feelings of sex. Best of luck with your decision, I hope you decide wisely.
2006-10-02 13:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by DSpite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're trying to tell us that you're thinking about having sex with your boyfriend who is 18 the answer is NO. It is illegal for him to have sex with a minor (because that's what you are). And more importantly you are TOO YOUNG. Do not have sex unless you are absolutely ready to take on the consequences of your actions. Emotionally and physically. At 15 you should be concentrating on an education that will lead you to a chosen career path (you have decided on one, havent' you??). When it comes to sex men and women DO think differently! Women develop an emotional attachment to the man (there's a hormone that clicks on). Men do not have the same feelings. Dump this boyfriend if he's not willing to wait for you!!
2006-10-02 13:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 and my boyfriend was 18..we just broke up last week...
I'm a virgin,but I had come to the desicion that if he made a move I would have done it..
It's something you have to decide.You have to base it on the way you feel about him and how you guys stand in your relationship.if you're thinking of doing it because you think he'll leave you if you don't then it's not the right desicion.
If you're gonna do it just be sure you're ready and be sure that you will not regret it later on.......Consider you possibly getting pregnant.would he be there for you.could you guys be together forever...you have to really think of things.I mean sure it's just sex, but still..think it through....
I'm glad I didn't do it.I mean even though I loved him with every part of me, but now I'm glad I didn't becasue than I'd be here alone and with even more feelings because I would have let him be a part of my life on another level....Just be sure
2006-10-02 13:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG YES, you should not be having sex at 15 .If you think you are old enough to have sex then talk your parent and get on birth control PLEASE..you don't need a BABY or an STD and he is 18 so thats prolly all he wants to sleep with you think about this
2006-10-02 13:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by lexi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I know you don't want to hear this but you are too young.
Second, If you do make the horrible mistake of having sex at that age YES use protection
Third - At 18 he is legally an adult. If you have sex with him it is statutory rape and he can go to prison and get his name on a sex offenders list for the rest of his life.
2006-10-02 13:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hes got the right idea- he wants to use protection.However, does he understand that he can be charged w/statutory rape?
U kno doing this w/him is wrong.I can tell by the way u asked the question. Tell him 2 take a cold shower.
2006-10-02 13:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by bkempress718 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're under 18 they call it statutory rape, and the penalty is just about as severe as it is for forcible rape. That's why young girls like you are known as "jail bait". You really should at least wait until you're 18.
2006-10-02 13:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by ConcernedCitizen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's commiting statutory rape then if he's 18 and you're 15.
If you don't use a condom then you're both asking for trouble.
You especially.
2006-10-02 13:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by sprydle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You dont want to get pregnant honey.Use protection
2006-10-02 13:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by Pauline 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋