i really really need help, there is this new guy at my school who basicly is crazy ( he thinks he has an alternate personality) but he is a good guy and so back to my point all of my friends know that i can be alittle of they wall sometimes and have had moments where i have snapped. But what i am saying is that he keeps asking me out and his reasoning is that he thinks im hott and since we are "both crazy" and everyone thinks we are a good match together. But, i really dont wanna answer him cause if i say no then that might wreck our friendship but, if i say yes then i am stuck in another relationship i really dont wanna be in. So the other and last part of my problem is that both of my Ex's have been asking me out too and i really dont wanna go out with them either cause they were all a$$ holes when we were going out. So my question is if any of them i should go out with who, or how do i tell them i'm not intrested with out changing my friendships with them.
2006-10-02 13:08:51 · 7 answers · asked by queen_of_spades_9889 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't want to go out with him then don't. Tell him that you aren't commited to a boyfriend at the moment. Commited - get it?
2006-10-02 13:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sheriff Leane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... umm... write a little chart, pros, cons, give them all points and stuff based on voice and smile and personality and so on. If you really like them you'll be biased to give them more points than the others. But they all kind of sound bad to me, I hate guys with alternate personalities who claim to have mpd, they're mostly just full of themselves and looking for attention. I think it's a made up disease, but who knows. Either way, since he'd want to drag you down into the gutter with him by calling you "both crazy", I wouldn't want to date him. And if your ex's were ***holes, that doesn't sound good either and would also be lowering your integrity a bit. But just turn them down politely and say you still want to be friends with them.
2006-10-02 20:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why, IN THE NAME OF GOD, would you put your dating
interests in the hands of all of these people on Yahoo Answers
who you have never met???
Girl, look inside of yourself and ask if you want to date this new
guy. If the answer is yes, then go right ahead. If the answer is
no, then be honest with him and continue your friendship.
With regards to the Ex's, there is a reason why, in each case,
they are, in fact, Ex's. Keep them that way, or else they will
become two time Ex's.
Or the ex, twice removed, or something.
2006-10-02 20:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't go ut w/ any of them. u tell them all that u really don't want a relationship rt now. ur life is just to crazy rt now to have a bf. then everyone should stop asking for the mean time. but they will still b ur friend b/c u didn't say no, u said not right now.
hope is a great tool
2006-10-02 20:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by neverland22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes not crazy. People can have alternate personalities but from temper. I'm serious look this up online. If you don't want to go out with him then don't. You have to say no sometimes.
2006-10-02 20:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KILL THEM ALL !!!! Just kidding.
You should just tell the crazy guy that you just want to be friends w/ him, it's really not that hard!
As for your ex's, you have no reason to even talk to them! Kick em' to the curb!
2006-10-02 20:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by Toto! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, please.....
Grow up.
2006-10-02 20:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋