I am 18 years old and I've never had a date. I'm not hiddeous with boils coming out of my face or anything but for some reason it seems I'm not approachable. I have a good personality, I'm intelligent, I can get people laughing, and I'm pretty confident in myself. I think I am oblivious when guys flirt with me so maybe they don't think I'm interested. I was in best buy the other day with my friend and the cashier was really good looking. It seemed like something was there in the back of my mind but I just continued to pay for my stuff. When my friend and I walked out she told me he was flirting with me. I should have went back in there.
What can I do to better myself when it comes to dating? Do guys like it when a woman approaches them (as long as she isn't making him feel like the woman)? Any tips or pointers?!
*I already know if I whored myself out, it would be so much easier...
that's a last resort.
2006-10-02 13:03:01 · 12 answers · asked by Plug me in and turn me on 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget the whoring thing... you'll end up like a Kleenex... used and thrown away.
Open up and talk to us.
It sounds like you're intelligent enough to hold a conversation, right? Provide the opportunity for the male of the species to initiate the courtship rituals, and don't be afraid to laugh at his corny efforts.
You'll get a feel for who's playing, and who's serious.
But if you go all "cold fish" all the time, you'll end up alone on a lot of evenings.
But above all dump the 'ho bag idea, cuz you'll just get hurt more than it's worth...
2006-10-02 13:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem like a very,very nice person to be around. But maybe when a guy approaches you, you push him off without even knowing it. Maybe you should approach a guy, but just don`t seem to desperate and don`t ask to many questions that another sign your desperate. If a guy approaches you don`t be so quick to answer his questions also ask him a couple of questions some guys like to know that you interested in them and are interested in taking things a little further.
I wish you the best of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-02 20:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by FAMU GIRL 09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, you sound like the female version of me. My brother is always telling me about girls who're interested in me and I never seem to pick up their hints. When he and I were taking care of my sick sister, one of her nurses had a major crush on me. On the day the nurse ended her care for my sister, she gave me a really long hug. I didn't think anything of it until my brother said, "Did you notice that she didn't hug me?"
I currently don't have a girlfriend and I'm not really looking. But there are some really great looking girls all around me and I'd like to know when they're giving me "the signal" too. So maybe you can also help me understand what it is that girls do when they want a guy to talk to them.
Maybe we can e-mail each other...Just let me know...okay?
2006-10-02 20:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you whored yourself out you would just end up going through one-night stands with guys not too much unlike myself, or how I used to be. I, being a somewhat introverted individual nowadays, personally love it when a woman approaches me. Not to be lazy, but I just don't want to work that hard to get a woman's number.
2006-10-02 20:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Richard H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't whore yourself out. If you are interested in a guy you have to watch for signs. They can't do all the work. Let them know you are interested too. Even if its just starting out with a little eye contact and a smile.
2006-10-02 20:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem and i'm 19, I'm going to tell you what one of my friends said, he said, " your not the type of girl to go out with alot of guys and have a lot of boyfriends, your the type that one day will meet a guy and that's it he'll be your soul mate, you'll have that one true love." So i'll give you the same advice, take it how ever you want. Good Luck
2006-10-02 20:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by jaylee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol plug me in and turn me on,sweet. hell I like yah i dont even know yah, but hun dont be a whore you sound way to hot to do that, i used to be a Player, but i've chilled over the Last couple of years ago, ide much rather have a babe like yourself, give some kind of hint, it may be the guys are just shy to let me know how it goes hun
2006-10-02 20:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient at 18 your not over the hill.
wait for the right guy or go to places you mite meet someone with similar interests
2006-10-02 20:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Scott G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach a guy. if you want a date, go for it. i would love for a girl to come up to me so i dont have to do the work all the time. they probably just feel intimidated by you.....
2006-10-02 20:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by nick n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read a book. It is called Instant Rapport.
2006-10-02 20:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋