okay guys and girls i told these boy today that i really liked him and he told me that he liked me too but his not really looking for a realtionship right because he said he just got out of a bad realtionship I asked him what happened and he said the girl was complaining about hin spend less time with her.I couldn't even stop crying at all today,Cause i really liked him and I still like him.oh yeah I saw him again after he broke my heart and The guy kept on looking at me and flirting w/me now what kind of bullshit these is.should I keep talking to him as friends or ignore him.someone please help me out.
2006-10-02 12:53:22 · 10 answers · asked by Mocha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now that he knows that you really like him, he is going to try and have sex with you...Dont fall for it because he is just gonna use you...If he really liked you, he would have been more receptive to you the first time...
2006-10-02 12:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I read your beads, a similar thing happened to me today. Maybe it's some astrology thing, universal bad luck or I just happen to find questions I have things in common with. I told a guy I liked for about a year, and he said he only liked me as a friend. I'd be friends with him still I guess, maybe not too friendly, ignore him if you feel like you hate him. I don't know, it's weird because you feel all pretty and wonderful and then you get turned down and you start to feel worse about yourself and wonder what's dislikable about yourself. But one good thing to do is to write down a list of guys you find attractive who maybe you were meant to be with instead. Okay, I'm doing that right now and going through my classes and joining extracurriculars and looking for cute people. And of course this introspectiveness is really nice to get in touch with, only a broken heart seems to make us stop thinking about the constant hustle and bustle of the world.
2006-10-02 20:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep up the friendship but check his flirting if he makes any romantically physical gestures such as trying to kiss you or have sex with you he's using the "bad relationship" as an excuse to stay single and play you. If that is the case then walk away and let him know if he wants you then it's commitment or nothing.
He may be looking for a rebound girl most likely. Do you want to be that or a full time girl?
2006-10-02 20:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he does not want to be in a relationship now does not mean he may not want one later. Being friends for a while is not a bad thing. He is not intentionally trying to hurt your feelings. If you continue to be his friend he will see how much you really like him. And in due time when he has healed, he will see there is someone(you) that he can consider being with.
2006-10-02 19:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mercedes D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. if a guy really likes u, he'll be with you. don't waste your time on someone playing games. i waited 2 1/2 years for a guy to be ready for a relationship. guess what? it lasted like 6 months. i'd given him a decision, we could go our separate ways, or be together. he chose to be with me, but it was too late. i'm now in a relationship witp a great guy whose divorced, and just got out of a bad relationship. he knew right away that he wanted us to be together. i've never been happier. it only took him a few days to know what he wanted. if he's not ready to be with you, he's not worth your time.
2006-10-02 20:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by ~it's me~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to think that he has a broken heart too and a broken heart is not just something that blows away in a minute. He maybe really hurt and is trying to hide it. Just be friends and give him some time.
2006-10-02 19:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like with my ex-fiance and i we broke up but he treats me like a sister even though we are not together and it does hurt allot when you were with someone for a longtime i was with my ex-fiance for 5 months and i still love him but he has a new girlfriend which i don't like at all but i have to get over it all i can do is leave it in god's hands and see what happens or move on with my life and get myself right before you can anyone else right work on number one and then you can take care of number two.
2006-10-02 20:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by monica p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just try to be his friend while his heart heal and maybe when hes ready it will happen give him time you are luck he could have just played you and hurt you because someone hurt him so be happy he shared his true feelings and didt take advantage of you just be patient with him good luck i know how that can be
2006-10-02 19:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep talking to him! usually talking with some that broke your heart makes you feel better and mends a broken heart! Guys guys guys.... they suck sometimes i know!
2006-10-02 19:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tess c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was honest with u and didnt try to lead u on. he says he isnt ready for a relationship so be his friend and may be thing will grow.
2006-10-02 19:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋