Ever since i was a little kid i have had a problem with getting attached to things to quickly and being completely emotionaly torn when i lose them. Recently i have lost a girl, who i really had feelings for and im having a really hard time, emotionally/mentally, getting over her. She left me for another guy w/o any significant reason and ive felt really bad for almost a week and she is constantly on my mind. the very thought of her with someone else literally makes me sick.
i wont lie and say im some grown up guy thats got issues. im only
16 and in high school. But i want to be able to deal with thease emotional "problems" before im older and things like this can effect me more dramatically.
i have a hard time talking to people about this in person, thus i found this site. If anyone can lend me some words of advise on how i might be able to handle this situation better it would be much appreciated.
2006-10-02 12:49:57 · 6 answers · asked by Steve C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
=( I'm sorry that ex-ho of yours did that to you. No one deserves to be dumped that way.
The best thing to do? Move on.
Go out with some new girls and take things slow. Get involved in a club or get a job that will keep you busy.
Time will heal all wounds, you just have to believe in it and forget about her just as she has forgotten about you.
2006-10-02 12:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by asturiasangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16 and in love it is hard to get over someone you have came attach to. I am older and went through the same thing. It is not an easy process to go through. But in time it will become easier to deal with. Now as you get older it may be hard for you to give your heart to some one because of this situation. But you are only 16 and there are more girls out there.
2006-10-02 19:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by the sweetest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,this is a part of growing up. I know it hurts and it will take a while to get her out of your system. Never apologize for attaching to people too quickly. No thing wrong with that. Pretty soon some really lucky girl will br thankful to find someone like you. Good guys are hard to find and I get the feeling you are one of those. So,chin up and don't let this ruin it for the next girl that comes along.OK?
2006-10-02 20:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww honey, what you really need to do is to keep your mind occupied with other thoughts. Go out with your guy friends and play sports or whatever you guys like doing. Spend more time on school work and projects, volunteer or work if you have any. As long as you don't think about her it'll hurt less, and it's obvious if she left you for another guy she didn't feel the same as you did to her. So cut your loses now and wait a while before you find another girl so it's not rebound. But keep your mind occupied!
2006-10-02 19:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by fallen_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE ARE OTHER FISH IN THE SEA! Besides, you're still growing into adulthood. When you look back, you might even laugh at yourself. No girl is worth it, if she can exit a relationship quicker than it took to meet you. Use your manly charm and win someone else even better than she. Or, keep your nose in the books and become the next millionaire. Then all the girls/women will be chasing after you and you'll have someone to select everyday for the rest of your life.
2006-10-02 19:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ms-No-It-All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that I know to tell you is it helps to talk sometimes. If not to anyone else, talk to God! It really does help!
It's hard when anyone loses someone, no matter what age. Hurt is hurt. Right now it might not seem like it, but it does get better with a little time.
PS. Just hang in there!
2006-10-02 19:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by elizabethberkley284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋