ok so i like this guy and i asked him out on a note. and i wrote hey. I relly like you and i watn to get to know you so....do u want to hangount sometime?He alredy knew I liked hikm and ever since he found out i liked him hes been avioding me. So i took a huge step up adn asked him out... nad in class 2day he didnt enve talk 2 me and he didnt reply bac. =( I dont know if he will ever reply hes kinda shy around me...its weird and I dont know wat 2do. I try talking 2 him but he doesnt say much. It took a lot of guts 2 go up 2 him and give him that note. And i didtn want to wait till he asks me out...if he ever will. So do u think he will say yes? He doesnt rly know me so he has 2 say yes so we can get to know eachother.....right?
2006-10-02 12:40:49 · 8 answers · asked by dancingurl_22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me, it sounds like you're putting presure on the guy, but he's not sure what to say yet. I'd say leave him alone for awhile, then after talk to him. You might want to ask him what he thought of the letter, and ask him how he feels about you. Tell him you need to know, and it won't matter if he doesn't feel the same and hope you can still be friends. If he still won't give you an answer then take it as a 'no' and move on.
2006-10-02 12:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, if the guy hasn't replied to your note and "seems" to be avoiding you then I would say it's time to move on to the next guy. One thing to watch out for.....just because he doesn't seem to have the same feelings for you, don't let that ruin your sense to initiate a conversation with another guy. Too many times people get their feelings hurt and it ruins their chances for moving forward with someone else due to fear of rejection. Don't let that happen to you and I think it takes a lot of courage to ask someone out, so move on and go for the gusto!
2006-10-02 12:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bill B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i'm guessing if he didn't already reply you in note or in person that means he doesn't feel the same way. Even if he is shy so were you and you got the guts to write him a note to ask him out. So i think it's time you moved on to someone else.
2006-10-02 12:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by fallen_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't give you a time to hang out then take that as a no and move on because he sounds like an idiot. ^^; No offense.
2006-10-02 12:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by asturiasangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient.
And good for you for taking a chance. Bravo!
2006-10-02 12:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he would say ,"no "because of what are you saying. you should say i like you and i want to go out with you sometime.
2006-10-02 12:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-10-02 12:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by jokedrugs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-10-02 12:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋