Last tuesday, when I went to his house, when I was on my way out, he asked me if I wanted to kiss him!! and I wasn't ready! So, I said NO. I want to go over there, but I don't want him to think that now I'm ready to kiss him, but I'm not! maybe kiss on the cheek, but he thinks I'm ready to kiss him on the lips! He thought I was ready!
I don't want him to get the wrong impression, but I do Love Him!
I think I'm ready to kiss him on the cheek, but that's all! What should I do? Should I go over there?
2006-10-02 12:33:39 · 26 answers · asked by *Love is 1 Big Lie* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, you should not be pressured into anything you are not ready for. Kissing on the lips or not. You can still like someone, but he needs to respect you for your wishes.
Don't let him tell you he won't be your boyfriend just to get you to do more than you are ready for. You stay the strong person you are and do what you are already doing. At least you can say you don't have any diseases and you are not pregnant. You should be proud of who you are and what you believe. I am 100% behind you. Tell him how you feel. Tell him you want to be his boyfriend. If you want to be a virgin when you get married, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. If he doesn't like the idea, then he isn't respecting you. I will pray for your continued strength and courage. "You go girl"!!!!!!
If you are uncomfortable going over there, don't go. That way you will not be pressured into doing anything you are not ready for.
2006-10-02 12:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep things going at your own pace and make him understand what you want and when. When you go over to his place, and he asks you to kiss him, just say you want to kiss him on the cheek. This will let him know that you like him but your not ready to kiss him on the lips yet. He should understand and respect that. Don't be scared to go to his house just because of this, its important to spend time together and become comfortable with each other.
2006-10-02 19:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by mel_johns 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him right up front that you're still not ready but you'd like to spend some time with him. If he loves you or even likes you a lot, he'll be happy just knowing that he may have a chance in the future. It doesn't mean he won't ask but he already accepted no for an answer once so you know he isn't pushy that way.
2006-10-02 19:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is ok if you dont want to kiss him. You have asked yourself: What Would Jesus Do? and I think he wouldnt kiss him either but then again Why Would Jesus Date? And since he does not, neither will you. So you will lose your date, because he will gladly end up with someone who wont mind kissing him and you will have to find confort in Jesus, who is the only one who doesnt think you are a loser.
If you are too young to date, then dont date, but if you want to have a boyfriend you have at least be mature enought to understand that kissing in part of dating.
2006-10-02 19:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby,
You can come over right now, and I don't want you to feel like you have to do anything!! I thought you wanted me to ask to kiss you. If you don't want to kiss me yet, I'm fine wit that! If you just want to kiss me on the cheek, I'm fine wit that, too! I don't care how long it takes for us to kiss, it's worth the wait, at least I think so! You're worth waiting for! Don't feel insicure about having to kiss me or do anything!
I <3 U!!
2006-10-02 19:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you, if you really did love then you would have kissed him the first time you went over to his house, and you little 12 yr olds dont even know what love is anyway.
2006-10-02 19:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by thissucks201 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? if you are not ready to kiss then what are you doing dating? just wait a lil longer a boyfriend obviously is gonna wanna kiss.
2006-10-02 19:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by its_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should think it over and i mean really think about it and tell him y u don't want 2 kiss him yet.if u can find it n ur heart 2 say u luv him then u can find it n ur heart 2 tell him y u don't want 2 kiss him on the lips yet. but that's just me and what i think so hope it can help u peace luv and chicken grease
2006-10-02 19:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by youngknowledge1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you two been goin out? and going to a boys house is ALWAYS saying that ur ready for EVERYTHING.believe me.if you're still unsure, then dont go yet. and if he doesnt respect you, and how you feel about "a kiss" then, leave him.you deserve so much better than a guy that'll just want "it" if you know what i mean.
2006-10-02 19:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i thank u should go over and tell him that u are not ready to kiss him.and that u want to wait until u ready.
and tell him that i love u as much as i want u to wait until am ready!!!!!!!!!
he will understand
2006-10-02 19:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by daniella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋