Ok, this is in regards to the same question about couples sex, etc etc. I have done it, once, and it was amazing. My boyfriend and I in the end were only with each other for the actual act, it was all just foreplay with the other couple. We knew the other couple and they are really cool, nice and gentle people. But I don't ever want to do it again. He does, but so far, has respected my wishes not to. He never actually cheated on me, it was towards the end of a prior marriage, over 10 years ago. For him to actually cheat on me would be difficult because we are together all the time, nearly every min except for when he is at work. He is very good to me. So, this is why I don't just turn right around and walk away. He is a good person that wants to experiance things. But, he has said that I come first. The problem is/I was married for 20 years, lost trust in that man and now it is hard for me to trust again. It is a real problem for me. But I don't have a reason not to yet.
2006-10-02 12:30:46 · 5 answers · asked by darkangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll find a reason to trust again.
2006-10-02 12:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were married for twenty years, then I assume that you understand what is involved in a 'commited' relationship. So I guess the real question is: are you in one now? By definition, people in commited relationships do not have sex with other people, even if they are doing it together. If you are just dating...then thats another ball game. I don't really see how you will ever be able to trust a partner who is telling you he wants to have sex with others.
2006-10-02 19:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by climbikehikefoodandwine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut up Kill.You idiot.
2006-10-02 19:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats whorelike that you had couples sex. thats really nasty. hope you have aids
2006-10-02 19:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by killxmexkissxme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes its your problem, but the boyfriend is and asshole
2006-10-02 19:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋