I'm engaged and my fiancee just moved recently ( we lived together beore too), Its been such a busy stress ful time and we are getting really frustrated with each other.
I just need some advise on how to relax with him and how to not vent my frustrations out on him.
2006-10-02 12:28:10 · 14 answers · asked by Serey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
take up eith yoga or kikboxing. you can do both in your house for like 40$
yoga to calm and kikboxing to beat the crap outta sh it
2006-10-02 12:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to remember the most important part of a wedding is that you both say "I Do"- there is a lot of stress associatied with weddings but the thing is that they never end up being perfect becasue little things happen. You are both going to be so busy on that day that you won't remember much about it anyway... the reception is a party for the friends and family that attended the wedding... you two won't be able to wait to blow off the whole thing and just get to a place where you can be alone.... Just relax... there are going to be lots of people around you to help.
2006-10-02 16:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were married last year. It seems that since we got engaged two years ago life has been hell. We argue a lot, but still really love each other. We look at it and try to laugh about things. We tell each other that if we can get through this we can get through anything that life will bring to us. As for not venting, that can be really hard sometimes. Try not to talk about it unless you really have to. Talk about it when there is something to resolve. Other than that go on with your days and enjoy the good times you have together.
2006-10-02 16:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your fiance just need to slow down a little bit and do something fun together.
When things get stressful it's not good to take it out on each other because you both may end up doing something you will regret.
When you feel like you've had enough just get with him and go out to a movie, a walk in the park, a bath or shower together, sex, just something to relieve the stressful situations.
2006-10-02 12:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already relize it is not his fault but he may cause some of the fussing. Do other things to vent like exercise, play sports or just relax when needed. Give yourself a timeout to relax by yourself when you feel the tension. This is the only way or you will explode sometime.
2006-10-02 12:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a massage together and then have him massage u and u do the same. Buy a water fountain and relaxing candles at bath and body works, they have good selections.
While u guys massage each other, listen to the water fountain and smell the candles.
Then cuddle and listen to his heartbeat, thats always relaxes me. I always get stressed out at my job and sometimes my spouse makes it worse
2006-10-02 13:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just sit down together and talk about things thats going on.let him know that its not all him, cause rest to sure if u r alittle frustrated so is he.at the end of each week mae it a ponit to sit down and talk about whats going on don't let it get to bad.it gets better as time goes on just relax. make that special time for u and him only!
2006-10-02 12:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by thugpassion_alizepassion 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same boat as you I too am engaged but when we moved in together we got two bedroom when i get fustrated i just go in the extra room or outside.
2006-10-03 08:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about some of the frustrations with a friend or your Mom so you do not always "vent" with him.
2006-10-02 13:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by shepherd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 09:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be time for both of you to move on and for get about it
2006-10-02 12:36:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋