Is it bad to be thinking about getting married ? I've been dating this hot guy for a month. I can't think about anyone or anything but him. I am hopelessly in love with him and he with me. We are already thinking about getting married someday. Is this wrong to be thinking about this at such an early time in our relationship?
2006-10-02 12:26:46 · 17 answers · asked by Qusan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it is not wrong.i know a couple that married after 3 months and they are still happy together after 25 years.
2006-10-02 12:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by donatella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well 1 month is quite early.
but you are only talking about it.
my fiance and i have been together for 2 1/2 years and right from the start we were talking about marriage also. he proposed after seven months.
i am expecting our second baby next month (our son is only 10 months old) and we are planning our wedding next year.
if you guys feel soo happy about each other then talking about it isn't a problem. but 1 month is very early. but its not wrong.
i hope u can keep up your love for each other.
it is possible as my fiance and i always show our affection for each other other.
to answer your question its not wrong but dont actually rush into marriage just yet wait until a year or so until u know 100% you are ready for it!
2006-10-02 19:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like lust not love...
Wait another 5 months & then see where you're at in the relationship. Still great then maybe thinking of marriage is not so bad.. but at about 6 months you'll know whether or not you guys will be in for the long haul.
2006-10-02 19:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by ready2go67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a bad thing okay I'm 21 and my husband is 20 when knew each other for 6yrs before and we dated 3yrs off and on and let me tell you we fuss, fight, laugh, cry it is not always fun and you do really know this guy he could be a killer or something wait take time and plus you can't talk about anyone but him anyway girl get someone else okay or learn more about him
2006-10-02 19:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by Latashia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey u are in the honey moon stage give the relationship a year at least if you still feel this way go for it dont rush in to anything a divorse is like 600 to 800 bucks got that in the bank u have to split half of ever thing u get aft4er u get married encluding the kids
2006-10-02 19:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet! There is no hurry, be sure to know about him....It is not good to get married, and find out you married a stranger....There is a lot to lose if you find out you made to quick of a decision
2006-10-02 19:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by shea_harriet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely. You should probably wait a year, so you are truly sure if you want to be with this guy. I hope it all works out!! :)
2006-10-02 19:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not wrong, that is what relationships should be about, if you are going to date someone it should be because you love them and want to marry them.
Good luck to ya!!!!
2006-10-02 19:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah. You feel the way you feel. So what? Just keep inmind that things can happen...even for the worst.
2006-10-02 19:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its too soon to be thinking this way,you are still in a honeymoon period and everything seems so perfect,take more time if its true love it will last
2006-10-02 19:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋