because my bf has girls as friends. what can i do, i hate the feelings i get when i see him i wish it could stop. can someone help. he is good to me but it hurts :(
2006-10-02 12:23:24 · 14 answers · asked by Insignificant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be strong for I can relate to that one and just know that he is not in love with these girls and he is dating you not them so hang in there and it will work out for you
2006-10-02 12:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, I get this all the time because I have more boys as friends than I do girls. YOU HAVE TO TRUST HIM. If you don't then you really need to leave it alone and let it go and by it I mean him and the relationship. Now, if you are having women's intuition and believe that one of the girls look at him more than just a friend, check him. Let him know what's up and if plays you off MAKE HIM BELIEVE YOU (torture sounds fun). I would rather break up over an argument than some girl getting in between us.
Hope that helps!
2006-10-02 19:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Cherie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have friends & he has friends. IF these girls were his friends before you came into the picture you have nothing to worry about. If he wanted to be with them, he would have & not with you. I'm sure you have guy friends & would you like it if he was all jealous & gave you crap about hanging out when it's completely innocent? Get some self esteem & security with your relationship... If the guys a cheater you'll find out soon enough! And there is really nothing you can do about it but kick him to the curb!
2006-10-02 19:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by ready2go67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you get jealous? Does he do things that make you believe otherwise? Its not bad for him to have girl friends as long as he keeps them as that- JUST FRIENDS.
1st you need to figure out why it bothers you, then try and fix it and move on.
If he's hurting you, let him know. You guys can work on this 2gether.
Good Luck =)
2006-10-02 19:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Boricua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is really b/c ur insecure....if u have to get him ti reassure now & again...it helps...also talk to his "friends" & get the 411 you might need to know....if afterwards you still feel uncomfortable about it tell him that you need a break to sort things out....if he hooks up a/ sumone else move on...it just proves ur gut was right
2006-10-02 19:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get jealous it will only make u mad. just accept the fact that he has girlfriends, and u got boyfriends. if it all works out u all can probably have great sex together! it worked for me, i'm very happy
2006-10-02 19:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by Henry P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isnt doing anything with the girls it shouldn't matter. But tell him it bothers you. And if he cares he will stop. Good luck :)
2006-10-02 19:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself some guy friends
2006-10-02 19:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my girl is bi, so... lol... anyhow, i typically just take a few deep breaths and remind myself... she's with me, not him... she comes home with me, not anyone else. she loves me.
hope this helps
2006-10-02 19:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Adam W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being jealous is the wort thing anyone can be. If you are jealous you are probably insecure.
2006-10-02 19:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by jalapeno 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋