i wanna know how i can get with a girl with benefits without her blowing my spot.
2006-10-02 12:19:29 · 18 answers · asked by fake1986 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try craigslist. lots of sleazy people looking for a hook up there!
2006-10-02 12:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by I ♥ AUG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you don't. A girl who is interested in "friends with benefits" has emotional issues, same as you do. You are running from a meaningful relationship because you think that a girl with no strings will be better than being "tied down" what you don't realize is that sex gets old, fast, and so you either have to move on and get with a new girl or you have to actually make an emotional connection with this one. Once you try and make that connection someone will get hurt, and your casual fling turns into a drama bomb you can't handle. Just find a girl with low self esteem and date her for a few weeks like you usually do. It'll work out better for both of you.
2006-10-02 19:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this but he moved away and plus I was to specific on the 'benefits' part. You have to make a friend first of all, when you find her make her your closest friend BUT put it out there what you want. You can't have her digging you and then she has a crush in the end she will want a relationship and that's bad business for you.
2006-10-02 19:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cherie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go sit outside the post office on benefits day!!
2006-10-02 19:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get this all the time. I guess it just happens. I met the guys online. Even though, I've slept with them, I'd still wait around for them to ask me out. Never happened.
2006-10-02 19:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Yup! I'm a girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a job and get your own d-m benefits.
2006-10-02 19:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats blowing the spot? i thought men liked that or maybe thats why im single
2006-10-02 19:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have some benefits for her!do you?
2006-10-02 19:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bar is a great spot. that's what most girls go there for to get laid.
2006-10-02 19:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u guys scare to tell girls that u like them
2006-10-02 19:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋