ok so i liked this guy and wemadeout at the movies then today he asked me out and im like ok cool, but like i mean hes not the hottest guy in the world and he kind of has acne but like when im with him its alot of fun. but tomrow at aschool when my friends find out theyre gonna ask if hes hot or not but i dont think they understand that it really is the personality that counts. ineed some input on this
2006-10-02 12:16:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares what you're friends say? You're never gonna get a great guy if you're only looking for the hottest ones. It sounds like you could really have something with this guy, and you have fun with him, and that's what matters, right?
Good luck. =]
2006-10-02 12:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by kachelsachel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aha! Trick question!
You see, "hot" is a word that has kinda degenerated in the English language. In the same way that Harry Potter said that his friends were "cool" because they fought alongside him in the Dept. of Mysteries, "hot" can mean all sorts of things.
Are you attracted to him? Not physically necessarily, but as a person, for example? Sure sounds like you are. Why not tell them that, to you he is, or, as far as you are concerned he is. Something like that.
All due respect,
2006-10-02 12:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tommorrow will be a great test for you. You will stand there with this young man's social future in your hands. What you say to your friends could greatly impact his life. At that age, we all desperately seek the approval of our peers.
Rather than discuss his "hotness", make it your business to find out something wonderful about him, and tell your friends that. You will have lifted this fellow's esteem to a lofty height, and gained a loyal friend for life.
2006-10-02 12:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by The Heart Doctor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really shouldn't matter what your friends think...if there not going to like you because the guy you went out with is "different" than there not your friend's. i haven't been out of school for very long, and i know what it's like to like a guy that's not so cute. As long as you are having fun and he makes you feel good than keep going!! ugly guys are usually more caring. the "hot:" ones are always obsessed with themselves and you can't get what YOU want from them...just don't care what your friends say!! K?
2006-10-02 12:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your friends are bitches.Then what you need to do is get pizza face some clearasil and stop spitting all over his face at the movies.Personality doesnt count thats just what people say when they can't pull hot people. Sucks to your personality and suck to your ugly boyfriends acne.
2006-10-02 12:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Shawn V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly,
You should make out with a 36 year old man, and don't worry nothing about bases or stuff like that. Just do what the nice news man says, and soon you'll be happy.
The news man has no acne, he has a truck, a house, a job and money, maturity, experience, and willingness to make room for one more. Trust the news man.
2006-10-02 12:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it doesn't really matter what your friends think. at the end of the day you will be happy with the person you are dating right? if you guys go out for a while then you can get him neutrogena acne wash for men it's great. give it to him as a x-mas gift. he may like it and thank you for his clearer skin. only if y'all st ll dating at Christmas not before.
2006-10-02 12:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by sexylousleo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your friends don't understand how you feel about this guy, then you need to make new friends... Friends are supposed to be supportive an there for each other... at the end of the day, you live your life, not your friends...
2006-10-02 12:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by Alexander S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth. If they are your friends they will respect your honest answer. You don't have to date the hottest guy. You should find someone you are compatible to, someone who makes you laugh, someone you enjoy his company.
2006-10-02 12:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your friends, as you said it doesn't matter if he's hot what matters is whats on the inside.
2006-10-02 12:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by kim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋