2006-10-02 12:07:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 26years old looking at 6-9 months for somthin i dont even remember and bad attorney my girls are 764
2006-10-02 12:33:41 · update #1
Tell them the truth, tell them in a way they will understand, talk to them at their level. I’m sure that they know how much you love them but tell them anyway. What ever you do let them know how much you love them because they need to know. Let them know that you will be back and that you will always be there for them. ... I'm so sorry :(
2006-10-02 16:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mercy Max 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There really is no good way to handle this. I think the only way to approach it is to be honest and tell them that Mommy did something wrong and has to be punished. You can use it as an opportunity to discuss accountability for one's actions. Explain to them that adults get punished when they do something wrong just like kids do and this is the punishment that you have to get. Be sure to tell them that you love them and will miss them. Also explain to them that just because you did something wrong doesn't mean you are a bad person.
2006-10-02 19:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Simply tell your kids the truth. If you have to explain for what reason then you explain. But never try to explain to a kid,nor any grown up person the question,or any question that starts with WHY. Please understand there is a big differance in the two..Kids may say yes when you srart to explain why,but really they dont. kids are very easy to forgive,but some grown-ups are very stuburn,and do not forgive so easily. But keep this though in mind......God will always forgive you. some person asked a question on this post. Who is God?. tell them this. I'am that I'am who I am....That I Am.
2006-10-02 19:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on their ages be honest with them. tell them mommy has to go away for a while but she is leaving you with someone who will take care of you. If they are old enough to understand let them know you will be in jail for a while. You do not have to go into specific detail just let them know you did something wrong and have to be punished for a little while. Make sure they know it is not their fault as kids have a tendency to make everything their fault. Make sure you write to them as often as possible.
2006-10-02 19:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Kids, Mommy is going to jail for 'x' number of days/months/years for 'y' reasons. She will be back soon, so in the mean time look after each other. Mommy loves you all and will try not to go to jail after she returns. Never ever again"
2006-10-02 19:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by shafique_khan83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth.don't never lie to them.you will just cause more difficulty's latter & then they will think it's ok to tell lie's.will only cause you more problem's down the road.good luck and bless you.I wish could talk to you before you go.But you seem to have put a wall between us and dont know why?any way I hope every thing goe's well for you.
2006-10-02 21:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with them. You should not tell them a lie because that it teaching them wrong. Let them know that you broke the law and you have to suffer the consequences by going to tell a while. Let them know you will return and that you will be in touch with them throughout your incarceration (by phone and writing).
2006-10-02 19:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't strike me as the hardened criminal type...depends if you want to lie to them or not....you can always tell them that you're going away on work for a while and that you'll be back. just make them understand that you love them and are not abandoning them.
2006-10-02 19:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by anthony v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you going to jail?.....well, okay; be honest and try to explain that you will be back home after your time is done...tell them you love them...write , call , and get visits as much as possible..stay out of trouble, do your time, and watch your back....poor thang, as pretty as you are..I would love to give you a parting gift.
2006-10-02 19:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let them know you love them and that it's absolutely necessary for you to leave them for awhile.Also let them know that you will all ways love them even if you are not there with them.Tell them they will all ways be in your heart.Good Luck.
2006-10-02 19:12:17 · answer #10 · answered by telis_gr1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋