i have no proof just a funny feeling, but ive been cheated on in the past so maybe iam bringing that to this relationship. i just dont trust him but what if iam letting my insecurities ruin true love. Help please
2006-10-02 12:00:04 · 8 answers · asked by tracystacy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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You both need to come completely clean with each other. I am not saying that either of you has done wrong. However, you both need to work toward the point where you can trust each other completely. If you cannot move in that direction the relationship is doomed.
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2006-10-02 12:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could be bringing old baggage to the relationship but you can usually tell if a man is cheating. For instance, you can't call him at home, you can't see him on the weekends or holidays, he can't stay overnight, he takes you to eat out of town and other suspicious behavior. Do a background check on him which is not a bad idea anyway now a days. Public records have much info. or use ZabaSearch on the Internet.
Oh don't expect him to admit it. Men will get caught in the act and tell you "don't believe your lying eyes." My brother tells me they always deny it.
2006-10-02 12:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently found out 3 months ago that my husband had been cheating. He also swore "on his life" that he had not, but I only found out when I discovered very explicit emails in our computer time-line. When I confronted him with the proof, he admitted to a 6 month affair he had been having with someone he previously worked with who lives about an hour away from us. Apparently he would meet with her when I went out of town to visit my family up north. It hurt like hell to read the words that ultimately changed my life forever. I am still in denial in some ways. We have been going to counseling to try to work past this. I went through a period where I was obsessed with finding out everything I could about the other woman. I wanted to size up my competition. I see things differently now. If it is true and he is cheating, trust me, you do not want to know anything about her, or the details of what went on. I played private investigator and now I wish I hadn't. All I can say is to trust your intuition. If it is happening, believe it or not, your life is not over. You still have options. I decided to try to work it out for the sake of our 5 children. Believe it or not, our relationship is stronger now than it has ever been. It's almost like we made lemonade out of our lemon. But it has not been easy. I can at least go through days now without crying. However, it is always on my mind. I am trying to learn how to forgive so I can let go of this. It is consuming me and I am having trouble learning how to get it out of my mind. Best of luck. Although I was totally shocked to discover his affair, I now can look back and realize how much denial I was in. Keep your eyes open and trust your gut.
2006-10-02 12:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by LadyLee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of situations while a woman is pregnant issues tend to hardship greater effective than they could in any different case because of hormones..this could be a number of what is going on yet no longer all..on an analogous time as the being pregnant is making issues worse i think of you may my bypass talk with a counselor earlier getting married..somebody that could be useful you settle on in case your jealousy subjects are something you may artwork via or you may finally end up married with a toddler and extremely unhappy with your existence..
2016-12-26 07:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well has he given you any signs that he is cheating? maybe acting different or something? if he hasnt then maybe you are afraid that the same thing is gonna happen, and is just your insecurity that makes you feel that way, if you really feel that he is cheating talk to him and wait to see how he reacts, if not just trust him and you will be happier.
2006-10-02 12:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by its_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bad do u want to know? Find a friend with no job and have him followed, sooner or later they screw up if they are!
I always go with my gut feeling, it hasn't let me down!
2006-10-02 12:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut, a woman's intuition is seldom wrong!
2006-10-02 12:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes cheating on you
2006-10-02 12:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by LIZARD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋