I have asian friends and white friends. Thats what they tell me.
2006-10-02 11:54:19 · 7 answers · asked by joshjones007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm an asian guy and have dated several white girls and it all depends in the amount of game you've got.
2006-10-02 22:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, first.. I am a white guy and I love Asian women. I can't pinpoint exactly why I think they are so beautiful.. but I do. I mean, it's like trying to ask a person why they prefer their favorite color... because it's pretty? Beautiful? Looks good?.. Pretty difficult to explain. Why does anyone like anything? Forget about all the stereotypes.. those are just ridiculous.
Now, from my point of view, I don't see anything wrong with Asian guys.. I believe more of them look better than I do anyhow. And, if I could find a white girl (assuming I'd be interested..) then I'm very sure an Asian guy can find a white girl. The question is, would you like to be with one? If so, then wait for her. I'm sure she will come along someday.
I know most of you would agree that we shouldn't go after anyone just because of their race. I agree also, but there is nothing wrong with being picky. I believe physical attraction is important while I always keep in mind that thats not the only important thing (believe me, my preferences in women go alot more in depth than just her physical appearance..). I can tell you that there have been alot of beautiful girls that have been very bad for my health, so personality rules over all.
Basically, you need to find a girl that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated within your range of preferences.
Now, I love Asian women because they are so awesome to my eyes. And it's probably the same for Asian women who dig white guys. I can't tell you why white women don't normally go for Asian guys, but I'm sure if you try hard enough you can find one that does. I have a friend, who is, by the way, a white girl, that dated an Asian guy and needless to say, he did not treat her very well at all, unfortunately. But, the point is you can find a white girl... and it doesn't bother me one bit if that's what you like. If you like white women, that's great! I'd be behind that 100%. I just dunno why Asian women being with white guys has got to be such an issue with asian men...
You're gonna like what you're gonna like, regardless.. and I'm all for that. I don't see why anyone else couldn't be either..
2006-10-02 21:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by King_aaron 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The media stereotypes the asian male as unappealing, effeminate, or nerdy. As much as we try to believe that the media doesn't influence our views of others, it actually does make an impact. Asian females with white males are shown on tv much more often than asian males with white females. Think about it, when was the last time you saw a tv show, movie or a commercial with an asian male / white female pairing?
2006-10-02 14:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by achtung_baby 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's pretty much how it is. Asian women are considered "hot", while Asian men are not, maybe because of media, but it's just the current cultural trend. My successes (I'm Asian) basically came from finding non-Asian women that don't mind dating Asian men. I have yet to meet one that specifically like Asian men.
It's not really a disadvantage, I just don't get to enjoy the extra points Asian women get for simply being Asian.
In fact, I think it's great that Asian women are attracting so much attention. For every white/black/hispanic/whatever guy that goes after an Asian woman, it's one less competition for me for the white/black/hispanic/whatever woman that I'm after.
2006-10-02 12:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most white girls are prejudice against asian men. They'll say they're color blind but in fact they are racist.
2006-10-03 20:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hmmm white gal can answer dis 100% truth
2006-10-02 12:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by LOST 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dun know.......
2006-10-02 11:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋