Just in general, if that once in a lifetime great sex, great guy / girl, one night stand sort of thing. Would you do it? Even if! You were married / he was married and you where never gonna see he / she again?
2006-10-02 11:47:19 · 37 answers · asked by LIlhetty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can speak from experience when I say "never again!".
See, I am married, and found myself cheating on my wife with an old flame. This was at least 10 years ago. At the time, I was seriously thinking of leaving my wife for the most stupid reasons ever concieved by a man.
But I finally realised that I couldn't find anyone who would understand me, and satisfy me, as much as my wife does. So I called it quits with the mistress once and for all, and even though it was a wonderful sexual experience at the time, I now know that I would nver wish to do it again.
Even to this day, I feel extremelly cheap to have gone the weak man's path of being dishonest. It is perhaps one of my few regrets.
Add to that the extremelly painful STD/VD tests one has to go through, and that alone was more than enough to proove to me once and for all that cheating is not worth the price you end up paying.
Cheers!
2006-10-02 11:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not worth it, well at the time it's great. After it's all said and done your just left with thoughts of guilt. Normally when someone is cheated on, it always somehow get's back to the significant other.
This is what happened in my case, he found out and was devastated. I would never want to hurt someone like that ever again, nor would I want to feel that betrayal of being cheated on.
My advice if you feel like cheating, it's best if you break up with the one your with and then pursue the other relationship.
2006-10-02 11:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by devildollbaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not! The only thing a person has is their word. If their word is no good, then I have no use for the person, especially as a partner. In over 22 years of marriage, opportunities have been there, but I was never tempted to break my word.
2006-10-02 17:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I value my integrity and respect for myself much much more. I hold honesty higher and far move precious that any one night stand. This is just me. I would want my partner to feel the same about me. Now, that is love when u can be that true and real with someone that u truly love. I am just keeping it real!
2006-10-02 11:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by crunchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldn't i can get great sex from home would never cheat on my partner.i would also never sleep with a man that was in a relationship with another woman how would you feel if your partner cheated on you,and you always get caught out at some point.
2006-10-02 21:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by lilmissk19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Not now. I have in the past and I realise how destructive it can be. My partner never found out - but I couldn't live with myself, it tainted every aspect of our relationship. I certainly wouldn't risk the relationship I have with my husband and son (my husband is not who I cheated on) for a fumble
2006-10-02 11:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by unruffledemu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way Pedro.
I wouldnt cheat on a girl and I wouldnt sleep with a married women either.
Why would you want to cheat on somebody?
If you wanted to have sex with more than one person then it would be best to stay single dont ya think?
2006-10-02 11:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too would say never again! I slept with a married guy! I didnt know he was married till after I slept with him! It really upset me cos i had fallen in love with him we were going out for 6mths. Looking back at our relationship it was obvious. Would never had bothered if i knew!
2006-10-02 12:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by hypercb1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! If I put myself in a relationship then I give it all or nothing at all, there is no point in ruining what may be a perfect relationship for one night of sex.
2006-10-02 12:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not because I wouldn't be tempted but because I couldn't bear to hurt my husband.
I think you have to be realistic in life and accept that there are times when temptation will rear its head - you don't go blind when you get married - but you do respect your partner enough to never want to damage their faith in you.
2006-10-03 12:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by Debbie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋