i had a b/f back in february and we dated for three months then we broke up. about a month afterwards we decided to be g/f and b/f without actually being g/f and b/f. no not friends with benefits. we haven't officially titled each other b/f and g/f but that's how we've been treating each other. then i suggested while we were at a restuarant a couple days ago to try something new and he said he didn't want to. the next day he is totally pissed at me because he thinks i want to change him!! i merely suggested to try a new kind of dish!! i didn't think it would upset him that much. he was so upset that he said he just wants to be purely friends. i love him with all my heart and i really want him to be mine again. i need advice on how to get him back.
2006-10-02 11:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by sweet chick 4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not sure but it sounds to me like maybe he's the kinda guy who doesn't like a lot of change, he sticks to what he is familiar with? and that's why he got so upset because he felt like you were saying u wish he wasn't this way. but maybe he isn't that risk taking bad boy that he thinks u like and is feeling bad about himself. does that sound like him. If you really love him and it sounds like u do, but u would like for him to try different things with u because that's what u need to be happy and excited with life, then maybe u should tell him that and be sure to remind him that u love how steady and dependable he is and how he's firm on what he likes but if you two are going to have a good relationship you have to spice it up occasionally with something different other wise you'll be like to lil old people.
2006-10-02 11:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by tracystacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 03:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? He may not even be worth the drama, and that was dramatical. It probably hurt your feelings more than anything, but seriously leave him alone if he misses you, he will call dont stress it try meeting new people, hanging out with people with the same interests as you, who isnt afraid to try new things, or isnt afraid of commitments.
2006-10-02 11:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by steelababi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF THE SAYING IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING LET IT GO IF IT COMES BACK IT'S YOURS IF IT DOESN'T IT NEVER WAS. I LIKE THAT LITTLE SAYING I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE I HAD TO DO THE SAME THING AND HE CAME BACK TO ME AFTER FIVE MONTHS HE WAS BEGGING BABY PLEASE I'M SORRY I NEED YOU LOLOLOLOLOLOO AND THAT WAS FIVE YRS AGO WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR NINE YRS ALL TOGETHER AND HAVING OUR FIRST BABY BUYING OUR FIRS HOUSE TOGETHER AND LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL NOT PERFECT BUT BEAUTIFUL GOOD LUCK MAMMA BUT LET HIM COME TO YOU YOU ALL WAYS REAP THE REWARDS IF IT'S MEANT TO BE.
2006-10-02 11:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by bonifiedelegance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well meet him n tel him that u want him back u love him from da bottom of ur heart . n do it fast otherwise u can get late
2006-10-02 11:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by LOST 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is using you for something. Better off with out him.
2006-10-02 11:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont
2006-10-02 11:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by LIZARD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋