I'm not ugly and the girls I do meet well all we end up been is friends with benefits, but I dont want that any more. I want a g/f. I think Im doing something wrong but I dont know what??? Help??
2006-10-02 11:16:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe the girls you meet all think you're a guy who's only looking for "friends with benefits," since that's how you've been living it up until this point. Where are you meeting these girls, exactly? if you try to pick people up in bars, all you're going to get are friends with benefits/just the benefits. Try a place with girls who are more down-to-earth, and get to know them before asking them out.
2006-10-02 11:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not treat them like you want a gf? How about asking a chick on a proper date... maybe be a gentleman... chivalry is not dead, even though martha stewart says it is. Maybe open a door, flowers, dinner or something fun and spontaneous. Get to know a girl and let her get to know you... skip the sex after dinner, if you are that type. I would wait to sleep with the chick until you both are totally cool with each other. Let them know you want a relationship... or at least are looking for one.
2006-10-02 18:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find a girl that you have a lot in common with and then talk to her and get to know her. It will take longer than a month for any girl that you meet to trust her so you will have to be patient and wait for the girl if you truly like her.
2006-10-02 18:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by jordyn_eckel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to sexy legs weblink it's really good if not E-mail me missy1_1992@hotmail.com i'm in the same boat as you all me guy friends used to be people i had a cush on but now there just friends with Extras How old are you
2006-10-02 18:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sad 'n' Sorry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should meet a friend at school make her smile laph all the time invite her to a movie you know by her a gift just be her freind for a while and ulll see she will start to like you
2006-10-02 18:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to more girls and dont be clingy. Be sweet and be confident. Be yourself but try flirting with more girls. It seems like girls like you but do you get too attached or not attached enough?
2006-10-02 18:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Hotdivababe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...i dont even know what to say. maybe its the fact that your going out and TRYING to meet people. maybe you should just stop "looking" for someone, and someone will find you.
2006-10-02 18:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Johns*lil*Wifey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to be a better person and just because you cant keep a girlfriend that doesnt have to mean anything bad it may just mean thats not the person for you
2006-10-02 18:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mz. Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be forward with them. Tell them you want to suffer!
2006-10-02 18:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really depends on how you talk to her and how you make her feel...if their all only that "friends with benifits"bull then they aren't ready for commitment! dang....get someone who isn't scared to commit!
2006-10-02 18:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋