I had a rumor about me at the end of 7th grade (i'm in 8th grade now) that I got pregnant. I told one girl that I had sex becasue I wanted attention. Now everyone thinks I had sex and I tell them I did because i'm afraid everyone will hate me for lying to them. I still tell everyone it was true but I am so sick of it. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2006-10-02 11:09:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Just stop talking about it and never mention your sex life again, except to those your really trust. It's no one's business anyway. And, no matter how much you try to defend and deny, people (especially 13 year old girls) will believe what they want to believe. And, yes, trying to admit you lied is just going to make it worse for you, so stop talking about it. What you might want to do, though, is mention it to your mom so if some rumor reaches her that you were pregnant, she can hear everything ahead of time from you. You told a dumb lie for an even dumber reason but it will pass when the next bit of juicy gossip arises. Good luck!
2006-10-03 06:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
saying that you are a girl maybe 13/14 having sex is'nt cute.You should tell the truth.Girls call you slutbuckit and ho3 behind your back.The only attention soon you will be getting is boys grabbing on you and trying to get your pance.If you wanted attention be a cheerleader, or a vollyball girl which is cute. your asking for the wrong attention and you will only get hurt in the end.
At that age people at your school will never understand, even if you told the truth.(SOLUTION)get into something in school that takes up your time where you don't get to see your regular friends everyday.When people ask you about your sex life just say it was a rumor that was'nt true and quickly change the subject talking about some one else business(make it sound like gossip)eventually it will be last year news and everyone has forgotten (because in reality they really don't care).In highschool its a whole new atmosphere its the cool, popular, nobodys, and the others. The others are the ones no one like(usually considered a ho3). The cool are the one that look pretty or just have a attitude everyone like. The popular are the people that play sports and are smart. The nobodys are the people that just there at school (no one cares about them or know who they are).Then the other, no one like them but everyone knows them (ex:britney spears, cristina agulira). but at the end its all about graduating.
2006-10-03 19:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesh! Other girls do this? I did this when I was your age. I did it because the pressure to be like everyone else was getting to me so badly I thought my head was going to pop!
The very best advice I can give you, from someone who has been there, is own it, and learn from it. If someone is only your friend because you are promiscuous they are NOT your friend.
You have to understand how odd it is for a girl who is so young to already be experimenting with sex with another person! That is the oddity, It is much more common for women to have their "first" love when they are 17, 18, or 19 yrs old then when they have only had pubic hair for a year.
You are going to meet so many people in your lifetime. Most of whom will see you as an incredible person, you don't want people to know you first as this girl who had sex at 12.
Take care!
2006-10-02 13:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by lesbianmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..First of all you should not do stupid things like that to get attention. You need to find out why you are seeking attention. don't do that. it makes you miserable and you could get pregnant and besides you are cheapening yourself with boys and boys will think you are a easy catch for sex. Is that how you want to be viewed? you want to be respected by your peers.
You are very young to have sex. it's not wise at all. Please don't do it anymore. That' s not how you get attention. You should not worry about what people think. if you do that..you will ruin your future.
I suggest you tell the truth or tell them it's none of their business. let time go by and then everyone will just stop talking about it.
2006-10-03 03:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be ashamed of making a mistake. Just learn from it. There are consequences to our actions all the time. Pick your friends wisely also. The next time you have sex, make sure it is for the right reasons! One last thing.........your business is your business.......you don't have to bare your soul to the world. Not every acquaintance you have is entitled to that information. If close friends want to talk (privately) and you want to share..... that's fine. I know you are mortified right now, but this too shall pass. When you are tired of talking about it, say so. Eventually, there will be something else for everyone to gossip about! Hang in there. Take a few minutes to be thankful for all your blessings amidst this drama.......OK?
2006-10-02 12:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by hardbody3859 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that it is none of their business but make it a point to not have sex again until you are married (or at least much much older depending on...well...you...just remember that there is safe sex...it's called marriage). Then you can say 'no, i don't have sex'. That implies that you DO not have sex...not that you once did...just don't be a hypocrite. The only way to stop more rumors from happening is to not put more dirt on yourself to begin with.
2006-10-02 11:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by Natalya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello
Three year before when i was in your age i was also wanted to draw attention.Sometimes u say lies to imress but that isnt very good.I sugest u to ignore them and continue your life.You beter not think what the others saying about u and never again say a lie that u dont want.Always thing the consecueses of your actions.
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2006-10-02 11:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by Tzatzikomouris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask them, "Why do you want to know?" It's none of their business, and you are smart to not have sex until you are married.
If you feel like you want attention, do something extra special to earn it. Like in sports or music or art. Or try a community service club like Girl Scouts or Key Club or Interact. Good luck!
2006-10-02 11:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by bagoftwix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would say "I don't want to talk about it anymore." and change the subject if someone asks you. That way you aren't lying and hopefully the rumor will die soon.
And in case you haven't figured it out, that isn't a very good way to get attention. :-)
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