So I got drunk about 1 week ago on the weekend... and I made out with my best friend who is a guy. It was an akward week after and we rarley saw each other, as apposed to seeing eachother all the time and hagning out after school and all the time on the weekend. Its the start of a new week and he and my other freind ( who he likes) are planning to get drunk this weekend... I guess I have no say in what will go on but I don't want them to make out and I don't want anything to happen.. I just wish everything was the way it was before.. when I was super close to my guy frien and none of it ever happend.. so I am asking.. how do I deal with this whole situation.
2006-10-02 10:53:10 · 9 answers · asked by JKrazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all life doesn't suck, getting drunk and doing stupid stuff is what sucks. The solution STOP GETTING DRUNK! That way you wont have to worry about dong something stupid because you were drunk. As for your friend you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. If you just want to be his friend then don't expect him not to be with other girls, if he feels the same way you do then hey see where it goes. Most importantly try and stay friends either way.
2006-10-02 10:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, you are best of friends, have you ever imagined getting laid with him?... if no, then maybe unconsciously, either you or him is having the feeling of attractiveness to the other, that's why this led you to this situation and if yes, your aware that you definitely have this certain feeling for him... and you are bestfriends i dnt think what happened is just a "friendship with benefit situation", coz the degree of your realationship as friends is definitely more than that... so you better think, is it you or him, who has feelings?... or maybe both of you?.. so do you want to waste everything just with this one night drunkness? so you should clear this with him, talk to him... if you like him, and you think he likes you too, then make a clear decision what you really want , bring back the relationship of being bestfriends, and bring back the good times or make another step and build more romantic relationship... as long as there's still no clearness with what just happened, you'll definitely feel akward being with him... as well as you will not know where will you stand in his life, so you cant do anything, in where he wanted to go or whom he want to be with... so start working now, check your feelings for him, start TALKING to him and check his feelings for you, and lastly decide what both of you want to happen... hope this will help you... and if you still have question, and you think i can help you, just email me.
2006-10-02 18:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but sometimes you can't get back what you had.The question you should be asking yourself is WHY you don't want your guy friend & your other friend to make out or have anything else happen? Maybe you like him more than just your guy friend. Just something to think about!
2006-10-02 17:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-02 17:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
get over it.... you were drunk, the past is past, just move on with your life. Don't make your life more complicated than it needs to be.
2006-10-02 17:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by angelus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're a little jealous because you have some kind of feelings for him.
2006-10-02 17:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your pregnant. Then see if he gets drunk again
2006-10-02 17:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's your f***n' fault because you started it by getting drunk and makeing out with him......Just deal with it and get a life!!!!!!! and it sounds to me like someone is jelous!!!!!!
2006-10-02 17:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just act like nothing ever happened......
2006-10-02 17:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋