whats the best way?

Question

to ride a guy when on top. I have a problem keeping my rythym and i just give up. any advice?

i have tried everything. I want to try it so I can see if I can get an orgasm this way.

Answer 1

Hey, well lets see. There are a couple of things you can do to improve yourself.

Do you know how to dance? Can you move to a beat?
Well if you can, try music for starters. Now, depending on what type of thrill ride you are going for, thats the type of music you want to pick. If you want to give him a strip club type time of his life and just break him off a little somethin' somthin', put on some club or house music, something with a strong bassline because that is going to be your guide. Lose yourself in the music, dont concentrate so hard on doing it right cause GIRL...HE'S LUVIN IT REGARDLESS. but seriously, enjoy it, dont stress over it, your probably killin the flow just thinking about it.

Now if you are in the mood for some slow grind, I love the mess outta you, hold me tight type lovin' well you can do that too with music. Back in the day, most guys and girls I know had a sex tape, or now a sex cd. A cd specifically burned with the sexiest, hottest songs that would make you horny usually just by listening to them. So, you can burn your own..and PUT IT ON HIM GIRL..DO YOUR THING...check it out, some of the songs you could put on the cd, ( its usually the R&B that has the hottest beats and lyrics)...like Marques Houston's " Sex With You"
or go old school with Silk " Let Me Lick You Up and Down"( that might have a different tittle..but those are the words I rember) or H-town " knocking the boots" Ginuwine (anything by him) ok well you get the point..once you have that ready....SHOCK HIM..PUT ON SOMETHING SEXY..GET THE FOREPLAY GOING AND EASE YOURSELF ON TOP...

KISS HIM ALL OVER, AND START GRINDIN TO THE MUSIC, THATS ALL, LET YOURSELF RELAX

( YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO DRINK, HAVE A DRINK OR TWO TO LOOSEN YOURSELF UP, A LITTLE BUZZ DEFINELTLY WONT HURT THE SEX...DONT GET TOO DRUNK THOUGH..THAT CAN MESS IT UP)

now after your relaxed and grinding to the music..he should start to flow with you...and pretty soon you guys will have a rhythm goin and VIOLA...YOU DONT HAVE TO SIT UP TOP AND JUST RIDE EITHER, i MEAN YOU CAN LEAN OVER AND RUB YOUR BREASTS OVER HIM, AND LOCK YOUR ARMS UNDER HIS ARMS HE MAY EVEN GRAB YOUR BOOTY AND DO ALOT OF THE WORK FOR YOU..YOU JUST GOTTA KEEP THE VIBE GOING..BE SEXY..

YOU CAN DO THIS GIRL, DONT BE SCARED..BE A LITTLE VIXEN, HE'LL LOVE IT!!

GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 2

Practice practice practice! Take your time and dont put so much thought into it. You should be doing it with a partner that cares for you and that you dont feel silly around, so you can experiment with them and talk it over to see what works best

Answer 3

that's my favorite position...just straddle him and roll up and down on him like you're riding a horse...let your lower legs and knees do the work..if you can't go up and down...

Answer 4

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