I have just suffered a miscarriage, any tips on how to cope physically with my 15 month old, i am alone?

Question

I had my a miscarriage on saturday and I have just come home on my own with my son but am feeling shaky and sick. Can anyone help me? Is this normal?
Please do not answer the question if you have nothing nice to say

Sorry it was very early pregnancy about 6-8 weeks along

Mim1978 i live in east anglia, is there any chance i can get some contact details from you please? It would be nice to talk to someone who has been there

Answer 1

First off, I'm very sorry to hear that. I'll keep you in my prayers! Just remember that everything happens for a reason, even if we don't understand what the reason is. It's normal to feel how you're feeling and actually you probably have one of the milder side effects of miscarriage. God bless :-)

Answer 2

Firstly I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage. The fact that you have suffered a miscarriage is such a big strain on your body both emotionally and physically and on top of that you have to care for a 15 month old, my little one is 14 months old and does well to tire me out.

your health and wellbeing is paramount, if you are not fit then you wont be able to care for your child?

after miscarriage its possible that you may be losing a lot a blood, i can recommend a great tonic so that you dont become anaemic, Floradix, heard of it at all? try and eat well like high energy nutritious food. If you dont have an appetite make your self some smoothies, perhaps add some nuts to it, i.e almonds which have a high zinc content (help to aid your immune system). Eat things like wholegrains (brown bread, wholegrain pasta) =, lamb, fish and vegetables.

The other thing i would recommend is homeopathy, a very powerful system of treatment that stimulates the body to heal itself without any side effects. try and find a homeopath that is local to you, some offer a consession if you are on benefits etc. A trained homeopath will be able to support you and aid your body to rebalance and heal itself. Many friends of mine and myself included have benefitted from homeopathic treatment after giving birth, miscarriages, c-sections, menstral probs and even chronic ailments etc.

Anyway I hope I have been of some assistance. I would have gone in to more detail but my baby is playing up now so I have to cut it short. But if you have any more questions etc please ask and I'll do my best to help.

Also really quickly before I forget.....try and stay around people. You'll need lots of emotional support.

Take care.

Answer 3

HEY YOU NEED TO DIG AS DEEP AS YOU CAN
FIND STRENGTH AND UNDERSTAND THAT NO MATTER HOW HAD A SITUATION SEEMS TO BE EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON U HAVE TO THINK POSITIVE
YOU CANT SIT AND DWELL ON THE BAD YOU GET STRONGER WHEN FIND STRENGTH TO ACCEPT THAT THIS IS WHATS HAPPEN AND THE ONLY WAY I CAN GET OVER IT
IS OPEN UP THINK
AND NOT ONLY FOR YOU FOR THAT BABY U HAVE
U ARE FEELING SICK BECAUSE U ARE GREIVING
BUT THINK ABOUT IT THIS WAY
THAT BABY YOU LOST WAS EVEN HUMAN AT THAT POINT


IT WAS JUST A BUNDLE OF FLESH SO IT FELT NO PAIN AND THE ONLY REASON IT WAS CONSIDERED A LIFE IS BECAUSE THATS WHERE IT WOULDVE GONE HAD IT LIVED

BUT NOW
THE 15 MONTH NEEDS ALL OF U HE DOES NOT NEED TO SEE YOU GRIEVING BECAUSE BELIEVE IT OR NOT IT'LL AFFECT HIM

SO DONT FOCUS SO MUCH ON OTHER PEOPLE'S EXPERIENCE JUST KNOW THAT YOUR WAS YOURS FOR A REASON AND LOVE THE BLESSING THAT SETS IN YOUR ARMS NOW
ITS OK TO GRIEVE BUT NOT TO DWELL
HAD IT BEEN MEANT TO BE IT WOULDVE BEEN
YOU;LL BE FINE
SEEK SUPPORT IN JESUS
NOT US A MEN+ HUMAN BECAUSE WE CAN TELL U ALL WE WANT BUT WE CANT PUSH U OVER THIS SITUATION

THIS IS LIFE AND IT AINT FAIR BUT IT IS PREDETERMINED
GOD HAD ALREADY PLANNED THIS NOW HE IS JUST TESTING YOUR STRENGTH.

FOR FURTHER ENCOURAGEMENT EMAIL [e-mail]
YOU'LL BE OK
( BIG HUG)

Answer 4

I suffered a miscarriage only 2 months ago, I know exactly what you are going through, miscarriage is a very lonely place, please send me your details and i will contact you, i have some very helpful and useful info which helped to see me through this very hard time.

Answer 5

im sorry to hear your loss i just miscarried also at 8 weeks, i suggest you take some pain killers, non drowsy to help you, and go to the doctors to make sure theres no infection because shaky isnt normal

Answer 6

i feel for you go to see your gp asap they may give you something to settle your nerves and anxiety i know it wont compensate for your loss of course this is normal you are grieveing for about your loss i am so sorry try to concentrate on your wellbeing and also that of your child once again i will be thinking of you also their are phonelines in the yellow pages where trained peopl deal with these terrible happenings hope you will be ok

Answer 7

God help you. your body is probably adjusting back and more than likely your in shock. Rest if possible and get in touch with your health nurse. Take care and i Know it's easy to say try and focus on what you have now with your son, instead of your sadness. take care pet

Answer 8

im not sure but i heard when u have a miscarriage ur supposed to go get the fetus sucked outta u, that could be it but im not sure and it also depends how far along were u

Answer 9

Think of it, you may have lost a baby, but you are now the mother of an angel!
how many people are special enough to be an angels mum?

Answer 10

Let family and friends help you as much as they want to. Don't feel like you have to do everything yourself. Hope you feel better soon, good luck