Does anyone here know how to start a REALLY GOOD conversation with a crush you would like to get to know.Im in high school so i need some pretty good answers.Thank you!
2006-10-02 10:41:36 · 16 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahhh 1st of all thank you for everyone who have answered my question.I apperciate it.But im not a boy im a girl........
2006-10-02 11:19:23 · update #1
You probably aren't going to like the answer that will get you the furthest...but here it is. Just do it and be confident about it.
Confidence really is the key. If you are happy with you and who you are, just going up and saying hi is enough. If the person is in to you, that person will want to talk. If the person isn't in to you, then you have to be okay with the rejection. You will never know unless you give it a shot.
That, and practice. Go talk to other people you don't have a crush on. That will give you the practice of starting up conversations. From there you will feel more confident about talking to your crush.
2006-10-02 10:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by denverwazzup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I could give you one piece of advice, it's a little tip I picked up from Dale Carnegie: ALWAYS remember that everyone's favorite topic is ALWAYS themselves! I think a lot of men get derailed in conversations with women when they mistakenly think that she is truly interested in you. Well, let me save you the surprise, she's not. However, she is most likely interested in herself. Being that women are generally more emotional, they want someone to listen to their problems, challenges and sympathize with their situation. The best way to start a conversation with her is to ask open ended questions about her and her life situation. Once you do this, do yourself a favor and DON'T TALK. Just listen to what she has to say. When she's done with her response, ask another open ended question to expand upon the point she just made. Now, the trick here is to act genuinely interested in what she has to say. STAY FOCUSED and respond in non-verbal ways (nod your head, squint your eyes, etc.) By getting her talking about herself, you are tapping the subject she knows the most about: herself. She should be able to speak freely and confidently about this subject, therefore, giving her confidence and making her feel important. If you plan on pursuing a future with this girl, you'll have plenty of time to talk about yourself.
One more quick tip: Once you have started a successful conversation with this girl and you feel it's getting close to the end, cut it short and dismiss yourself. Don't be a jerk about it, but politely excuse yourself. Most people in this world are so self-centered that when someone shows an interest in them, they are extremely flattered. However, like any comedian would tell you, you gotta leave 'em wanting more. Then, the next time you see her, start up another conversation about her and she'll subconciously remember what a good "conversationalist" you are. All you are doing is appealing to her emotions. Being that you made her fell important before, she will persue that feeling from you again. If you cut it short again, she will begin to seek YOU out. That's when your in like Flynn!
KNOW that you're money, but don't be cocky about it. There's a fine line between being confident and being cocky. Don't cross it or you might as well give up on this chick.
2006-10-02 18:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by nkczar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was immediately attracted to my bf the very first time I saw him. We have mutual friends, so I went to one of our friends and told him to tell him that I want to have sex w/ him. He thought that was funny. We saw each other again like a month later and that is exactly what happened and we've been together ever since. I know it sounds sleazy, but it worked for me. Oh yeah, we've been together for a year and a half
2006-10-02 17:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have one that will open the door to you asking her out
ask her what movies she's into and then (you should probably find out what movies are on) then remember one that you think will apply to her taste.
don't just memorize all of the movies you like
if you have a crush on her then you like her
2006-10-02 17:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by RandomChickSam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a great way to start a conversation with me would be asking about Grey's Anatomy.. something like "Hey, I've heard that show Grey's Anatomy is pretty good. Do you watch it?"
Just find out what show she likes on TV and be prepared for her to talk her face off.
2006-10-02 17:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I Like You
2006-10-02 17:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by ♥I know these things♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him or her somethings about yourself and let him know that you have a crush on them. But do it before its too late because someone else might take your cookies.
2006-10-02 17:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by ms_diamond_pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out about something they really like that isn't very obvious. Start talking about it. Then, you can kinda branch off into something you actually know about.
2006-10-02 17:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat as you and I feel like I don't know what to say either everyone been saying be yourself but its hard to just be yourself when you don't know what to say. Right!
2006-10-02 17:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Pretty me :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about what they like. If you know nothing about it then research what they like so you know how to answer any questions they might ask.
2006-10-02 17:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋