I have friends but not best friends. I want a BF by my birthday so that he can spoil me. I already spoil myself but its nothing like spending somebody else money. its this dude at work gives me the eye but im scared to approach him (i feel like he should approach me). for one ive never dated anyone on the job or at anywhere that i have to see them all day everyday. i wouldnt mind talking to the dude that work with, hes cute! anyways i would like to know yall input. also, there are people that wanna be with me but i know that its not going to work and thats why i dont pursue it.
I had posted this earlier people was saying that i am shallow. i totally disagree!! i want a BF for more than spending his money, also his companionship. what is wrong with being pampered. NOT A D@MN THING!! besides i have my own money!
2006-10-02 10:39:27 · 24 answers · asked by i ♥ my cat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's RIGHT and you deserve it too!!!! Go for it; you only live once!!!!!
2006-10-02 10:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by SHAR ya DARE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more you want a boyfriend, the more disappointed you're going to be when he turns out to be a loser you settled on.
1) Don't be so desperate, and don't put a time limited on finding a boyfriend.
2) What will a guy give you? Why do you need a guy to spoil you? Do yourself favor and learn how to love yourself WITHOUT having to have a guy.
What happened to being friends first?
It sounds like you have glorified a boyfriend for so long that now you feel like you're running out of time, even though you aren't.
Guys aren't going to want to be with you if you remain this desperate.
2006-10-02 10:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck finding someone that will spoil you...i think this is a lost art...also you have a timeline which never works....because you are so disappointed if it doesn't work out....Just let things go naturally and go spoil yourself...because that is better than being in some sort term relationship that the only reason you did it is so you can have a bf for your b-day!! I'm pretty sure you are better than that!
2006-10-02 11:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by smilestoomuch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want a BF so he can spoil you on your b'day?
Also you think the dude at work should approach you "so he can spoil you for your b'day" ?
You don't look like you are ready to give. Looks like it's only take, take and take some more.
Wait till you are a bit more matured.
2006-10-02 10:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Calculus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shallow or not, if thats what makes you happy then go for it. Its not like you'll be hurting anybody.Talk to him, ask him out. Just don't be over the top or clingy thats a big turn off. Polite simple, "how are you doing, perhaps we could go out together some time"
2006-10-02 10:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by Bob-bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people earlier were right it sounds like. You don't need a man to feel good about yourself. You are only looking for the money.
2006-10-02 10:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the only reason you want a boyfriend is for his money, it is kinda shallow, but if you really want him, looks like you're gonna have to say something to him.
2006-10-02 10:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People In Hell Want Ice Water.
2006-10-02 10:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by ♥I know these things♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it somewhat exceeded off the type you defined it maximum possibly he probally nonetheless cares approximately you as a man or woman and chum, so he could desire to maintain in touch with you. based upon his movements, on the outdoors, i dont experience any spark or renewal, yet that doesnt recommend he doesnt love you in one experience. it form of sounds like he's basically being friendly in view which you 2 had a particular connection. greeting him is a superb ingredient to do as an ex, yet dont overanalyze his movements. you dont desire to lead your self on. i recommend persevering with on as youve been and in the experience that your met to reconnect this is going to ensue:)
2016-10-18 09:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol it is pretty shallow but if you want a bf just act like your available. dress hot and hang around a place guys do.
2006-10-02 10:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew Shlmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a rocket ship and lots of money. Stop being picky.
2006-10-02 10:42:29 · answer #11 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋