It's this girl that I've been friends with for a little over a year. I liked her from the beginning but chasing other girls I waited to late to tell her. She told me "we couldn't be together becuase started out has friends" Her boyfriend was the jealous type so I cut I relationship. But this year we ended up working the same place and she's still dating "loco man." I already told how i felt, but I'm backing off because of her Boyfriend. The problem is I can't stop thinking about her all the time. And when I see her at work I can only think about how I wish she was all mine. I kinda think it's more lust than actaul love. But before her "Loco man" yelled at me over the phone we use to talk all the time. Even though he boyfriend told her to stay away from me, she still instisted we talk even w/ how I feel. I'm not trying to break up a relationship but he BF is paranoid jerk. Ladies have you ever been in this sitaution?
2006-10-02 10:28:00 · 13 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes & keep telling her you want her, you two have reconnected for a reason. Maybe this time around you are suppossed to get it on. Lust is always a nice feeling to have for someone you want btw.
CT
2006-10-02 10:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person would must be friends first before dating. She sounds just as nutty as him.
She knows her boyfriend is jealous and she still wants to talk to you about how you feel about her?
You say it is more lust than a real attraction? Well there is your answer. You should stay friends.
Now go and sin no more.
2006-10-02 17:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by MoonWoman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,and it gets really messy when a boyfriend appears...I had to break any contact with my friend cause he started to mess my relationship,and I didn`t want that happen,cause he was just a friend,and my boyfriend the one I LOVED and stil do after years.
Please for yourself do this, look after another girl,cause this one,won`t be yours,she sees you just as a friend,I know it because I`ve been through it,and the one who will get hurt will be you.I really wish you that it ends the other way,but there are so tiny chances...almoast none to be the other way.please belive me,when a woman sais we should be JUST FRIENDS you must accept it.
2006-10-02 17:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be patient and be there for her as a friend, who knows, in time, she might see how much you want to be with her. I dated a guy a few years ago and unknown to me at the time, his friend had feelings for me, about 6 months ago we ended up together and the wedding date is now set for November 4th.
2006-10-02 17:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by the_mystical_runt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Acually yes, because there's one boy of mine had a crush on me for 3 years and he thinks were going out but we are'nt. Then last Tuesday a boy who I liked very much asked me out but then my friend told him that he can't have her because she's mine. Then my crush and I walked off and talked for awhile and then before the final bell rang him and I kissed eachother and him and I walked together and he walked me to my locker and then after I was done gathering up my belongings he waits for me every day after school and then walks me up to my bus stop after school. When I got home the one guy friend of mine called me and yelled, "why did you fall in love with him and not me?" and now he's very mad at me and now rarely talks to me anymore which is good because he's a selfish jerk, brat,and a mean person. And now my crush has now turned into my boyfriend and him and I been going out for now 6 going on 7 days. Last Friday was his and my first date and him ans I went to the homecoming football game and homecoming dance together as our first date and on Friday is his and my second date together and celebrate it with our friends. Ever since him and I have been going out together both of us are happy as ever. We hold eachother tight together and we won't let eachother out of our sights when were together. So yes I have been in that situation before and a lot people have been there and done that and it's not so fun. So yah, I hope you feel better and have courage to tell her and all.
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-10-02 20:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by navydaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i know exacly how you feel that is the same thing that is going on w/me and this really hot guy. Except now we don't work together any more, he moved to New England, like he could have a "better" relationship w/ his psyco maniac freak of a girlfriend. I wish he would have chosen the better choice, me because his gf treats him like dirt and he #says# that he "loves" her and he knows if he would have chosen me i would never treat him like that
2006-10-02 17:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by *just me*ur approval isnt needed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can say I have, Ive known my b/f for 6 yrs he has liked me every since we met. He never gave up, but I always said no cause it just didnt feel right yet I wanted to way my options, but I gave in and now we are absolutely in love with eachother. Just don't give up theres a reason why your into her just wait it out cause when you give up shell be running right after you!
2006-10-02 17:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Nicky ForYou 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you know she has more than just friendly feelings towards you you can say how you feel. but if you are just a friend do not ruin the friendship. you can loose her as a friend. it is a bad situation. if she has no romantic feelings for you you need to exept it and get on with your life. good luck!
2006-10-02 17:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by pikapoka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This lady might be a little "Loka" herself. Im sorry but if i had a bf like "Loko" Man then, i would not allow him to choose who and who i should be talking to. Be it a boy or a girl. He does not owe me my life..so if he does that...Hmmm "Outa Here!"..But i could be wrong.
2006-10-02 17:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I havent had a male friend in love with me but i've been in love with my best gy friend
2006-10-02 17:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by one in a million 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋