hey i know i am a nice guy loads of people tink i am cool and a laugh and i treat a lady really weell with respect and never push for her to stay over or kiss etc etc, but how *** i aint gettin any should i be more forceful ok i will get rejected but will my hit rate improve i beginning to feel that just being me and nice aint gettin me some booty
2006-10-02 10:22:40 · 19 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you lived near hendersonville, tn and i knew you i'd probably be all over you. if what you say is true (that you treat girls with respect and aren't pushy) then i'd say hang on there'll be some girl that finds your qualities just right.
2006-10-02 10:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by (((uniquely.me))) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey John, wake up. Women, and I do not care what you say, women like to think that they want a nice guy, but if they are honest, nice is boring. Be a bad guy, its much more fun and the girls do love it. You dont have to be more forceful, that could get you into trouble. But use your eyes and your smile, they are a guys best weapons, and be confident in yourself, none of them are good enough for you mate, they are lucky that you look at them LOL. Sound corney but it works. I became so confident after my divorce and I stoped being Mr nice guy, I have had more women since my divorce 3 years ago than I had the rest of my adult life, and I am 45. The women have aged from 22 to 38 and I am curently in a relationship with a stunning 29 year old and my caht up line was " I am a git and I treat women like ****" and we have been together for 9 months now. Another good tip is always maintain eye contact and if you can watch her pupils, if the get bigger she is interested, you now have the ability to be confident and she cannot stop her eyes from doing this (by the way girls, yes it happens to men as well), using this you can see if a girl is intersted instantly, efore you have to talk to her, mind you, you do have to be bloody close to see it LOL. Be confident, not sweet and nice but not abusive or anything, dont be afraid to let them know they do it for you. If they laugh or sneer, hey their loss mate. Hope this helps.
2006-10-02 10:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never force yourself on anyone and try and clear your mind for a while and not let the little guy down below do the talking use your natural gift-YOUR BRAIN, all girls wants to be treated like a lady and it is very thoughtful of you that you are nice to them-stay that way for that your kind is very rare these days-but if you can't take it just visit nature and calm yourself before you jump right back into the game(try it and if it works get back to me @ mimianderson52@yahoo.com
2006-10-02 10:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get "booty" and still be a nice guy. You can let a woman know that you find her sexually attractive without being dishonest. Let her know if you are not pursuing a commitment and if she decides to be with you, well full speed ahead! Of course there are women who are willing to be 'friends with benefits'. Find some of them.
2006-10-02 10:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Bean55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself mate, if you try to be a nice guy or a bad boy women will see through it in a flash, despite what some men like to think women aren't stupid, they know if someone full of BS or not.
2006-10-02 10:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by thecoldvoiceofreason 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience (i work in retail) - if you are a manager, it doesn't matter if you're nice or bad. Just hire people who are desperate to move up, and you'll get it at least once a week.
2006-10-02 12:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by AL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bad boy image can be appealing, but I personally prefer the typical "nice" guy. If you really treat girls the way you say you do, then you sound like a great guy.
2006-10-02 10:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad boyz r hott! And also u hav 2 b nice 2 the girl of course.
⥠sep_chick â¥
2006-10-02 10:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a man to be like every single leading romantic man in a chick flick! Isnt that what every girl wants?
2006-10-02 11:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by LIlhetty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ho but its worth waiting for!!! when it does happen the earth will truly move for you, rockets will fire, drums will roll, and you will walk on air ten feet tall, stay a nice guy , hope it pays off soon, good luck,!!!!!!!
2006-10-02 10:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋