Okay I use to think that I was a lesbian, even though I never liked girls I just went through a bad breakup with my boyfriend, then I didn't like boys, but that was just that I was sick if it. Well know I am straight defienty (please don't comment on the lesbian thing) anyway how can I get that feeling out so I don't feel guilty that I like guys, becuse when I talk to them I feel ashamed that I use to feel that way. But I am not a lesbian, or bisexual
2006-10-02 10:13:43 · 10 answers · asked by Becca C 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
try to meet other guys, first get to know them on a friends only basis, then if you find a guy that seems really cool, you could go on a date with him and maybe he will b ur next bf. if you're active in dating a guy, your mind wont drift to crazy ideas like that. maybe flirt a little. =P
2006-10-02 10:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gender preference is about the sex of the person with whom you feel romantic love and attachment. If you are straight, you will fall in love with men. If you are a lesbian, you will fall in love with women.
Just give it some time, and do what is right for you, not the other person. Time heals the feelings.
2006-10-02 18:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why feel ashamed? Many people experiment sexually with the same sex and decide that is not for them...in your case it is just a phase...do not let it get you down.
2006-10-02 21:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be a lesbian if you feel like that if you feel better talking to girls then you must be but it might just be becuase of what he did its alright just because your a lesbian dosent matter i dont belive it your a lesiban
2006-10-02 17:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can easily conclude that guys just get on your nerves really easily, doesn't exactly mean lesbian.
2006-10-02 17:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time for some me time i think for you.
just clear the webs out of your mind.. do things for yourself for a while until the feeling subsides.. this is normal.
you just need some time alone.
that's all.
2006-10-02 17:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel like a woman won't hurt you? And it feels safe..kinda like a coping mechanism..we all have them
2006-10-02 17:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go, write yourself a letter and read it once a day.
Write your feelings down, read it, re-read it and when you're ready to let it go, burn it.
2006-10-02 17:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like you are young so what you felt was normal and you shouldn't stress about it
2006-10-02 17:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by GD-Fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can say that for sure then don't fret about it.
2006-10-02 17:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sonny Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋