WOW this one is original!?

Question

Do you believe its ok to have sex before marriage?Why or why not?

I don't think its ok for me,but others may do what...or should I say who..... they want to do.

What about you?

Answer 1

I think it depends on the age of the person..I mean if Im talking to a 16-20 year old id tell her not to...But if your older (wiser) and you know that this the guy that your going to mary but financially cant mary yet..Then why wait.

Answer 2

I see no problem with it as long as both parties are responsible and practicing safe sex.
It would depend on someone religious doctrine, some religions speak against it.

Blessings )O(

I waited to marry until I was in my 30's. I have no guilt over having premarital sex and it has never been an issue in my marriage. I did not live in a man's house until I was married. These decisions were my personal choices not based on religious doctrine.

Answer 3

I have no problem with sex before marriage, as long as one is emotionally and financially capable of caring for a child, should the situation arise.

Every time and every partner can be very special. The first time does not hold a monopoly on that.

Answer 4

Of course you should have sex before marriage. The frequency of sex is going to decline after you're married. If you don't believe me, ask any married person. (And I'm not talking about the first six months or a year.)

Get as much as you can while you can still do it.

Answer 5

It is not near impossible to hold to that belief. Sex before marriage does not do anyone any good....I have a lot of years behind me and I have to admit I had sex before marriage...it can create issues and the commitment to waiting till marriage makes the marriage...

Answer 6

Premarital sex is OK by me, and it is the overwhelming norm. I don't believe people should repression their natural sexual desires just to adhere to an abstract value system. Those repressed desires will resurface in more malignant forms, which is what I think is a factor in all the celibate priest fondling little boys.

Answer 7

Is this original??>>>>>:

Would you purchase a vehicle without test driving it first?? Thats what I think about sex before marriage.

Answer 8

for me personally, i've decided to wait until marriage. this is partly due to my religion, but mostly because of experience; my first boyfriend was in college, and we had almost had sex. but i got scared, so we didn't. few months later, our relationship fizzled and we broke up.

and i was SO damn happy that i didn't give it up to him. even if it was accidental...but i had nothing to regret!! i decided from then on, that i was gonna wait until marriage, because i didn't want to regret that part of my life, and waste it on someone "unworthy" so to speak. i think i'ts fine if people decide to have sex or not, it's up to them. but i do think u should have a sound Mental, Emotional, and Spirtual relationship *so that* the Physical comes naturally. :)

Answer 9

The Bible, Gods Word, uses two terms for man-woman, in a living together, relationships.
The first term, or word, is marriage - Hebrews 13: 4 says "Marriage is honourable in all,
and the bed undefiled: but whore mongers and adulterers God will judge."

The second term, or word, is fornicators.

That is the term for people "having sex" outside of marriage.

Gods Word, in 1 Corinthians 6: 9 says "Be not deceived:
neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers

of themselves with mankind. Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers,

nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God."

Please notice what grouping or classification GOD puts "shacker uppers".

Answer 10

That kind of thinking is called moral relativism. The belief that morality is relative, and that there are no absolute right or wrong values. It's just an observation