My boyfriend is taking heavy medication before he goes to sleep. He must take that medication for at least a week. Those pills make him soooo sleepy that he can not wake up until morning, not even if I shake him hard. Yesterday, he was sleeping, but he went to sleep before we made love. I was not getting any sleep, and then I noticed he was having a huge erection. I was so horny and he is so hot, cute, and treats me so good, that I could not contain myself and I made love to him. I am his girlfriend, so I see nothing wrong with that. Should I tell him what I did?
2006-10-02 09:48:12 · 16 answers · asked by funlovingirl88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel bad about it now, I am going to tell him and then ask a new question here to let you all know what happened. :-(
2006-10-02 10:17:42 · update #1
Was it rape? Technically, yes. You had sexual relations with a person who couldn't otherwise give consent. It's no different than a guy having sex with a girl who's passed out at a party.
Should you tell him? Yes. Absolutely. Chances are he won't be too upset, but you should still tell him.....
2006-10-02 09:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Silver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree, if it was the other way around the guy would be in jail by now. However, i'm sure he wouldnt mind. Those are some pretty good meds for him to not notice that. So did he "finish" or did you just stop when you were done? I'm curious.
2006-10-02 18:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by bayougigolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was! If the reverse thing happen it would be rape! You should tell him I think if he's cool about it then he won't freak out that much. But let him know!
2006-10-02 17:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you. It was not rape. If it is bothering your conscience then tell him. If he really loves you then he will be flattered and even chuckle a little.
But if you are not bothered by it, then save it for one of those moments when you have grown old together and want to share little secrets with him. He will still be flattered and by that time he might also share a little secret with you (That he wasn't really sleeping but was enjoying every moment of it) hehehehehe.
2006-10-02 17:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by cdubsj2 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the best relationships start off with nothing but honesty. you need to tell him, only if you feel that you can live with knowing what you did, but if you're already wondering if it's wrong, you should tell him, most guys i know would laugh about it. good luck. <3
2006-10-02 16:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by hey hey. i'm here to stay. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he would mind. He'll just be mad that he couldn't enjoy it with you.
But really, it was not consensual sex. Probably by the law's standards, it was rape. Open up and be honest.
2006-10-02 16:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by MiMi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm - kind of weird - why would you do that, and yes I would consider it rape - because if it would be the other way around EVERYBODY would call it rape. So go figure!!!!!!!
2006-10-02 16:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him. only 2 reactions to get. sex without anyone's knowledge is rape. turn the situation around. what if had been you? wouldn't you feel violated and raped?
2006-10-02 16:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by debarina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you "honey, can I bang you, while you're asleep", what will your answer be (apart from "if you can do it, without waking me up, maybe you need to improve your technique").
2006-10-02 16:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by dryheatdave 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should tell him, how would you feel if he did it to you?
2006-10-02 17:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋