i was adopted. i'm 13, and i really want to find my birth parents. can anyone help me find them or at least tell me where i might be able to? i need serious answers.
2006-10-02 09:43:26 · 7 answers · asked by boyluvr26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all, you need to talk to your parents about this. Your foster parents could know where they are. Parents tend to keep birth parents a secret because they want to protect you. If your parents can't tell you, then ask them where you were born. In what hospital. If you know what hospital, then go there or call them and ask them for the information about your birthparents. They may have the information you need.
If you parents also don't tell you, ask them why? Tell them that you want to know, and you need them to stop hiding it from you. Its not protecting you, its actually hurting you.
Good Luck!
2006-10-02 10:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Y!User 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I can not tell you how to find your birth parents. Are your parents mean or just normal strict. If you are having problems do not run away from the people who have loved you and raised you. Do not hurt them while you find your answers. I think you need to be 18 to get access to your birth records and at that time you will be able to find your birth parents. Be prepared your birth mother may not want to see you. She may have given you up for adoption for a lot of very good reasons and having you come back into her life may not be what she wants. I know all you can see right now is what you want but their are other people involved in this. Your birth father is also an unknown thing he might want to know you even less than your birth mother. It can also go the other way for both of them. Please grow up first and then look this will allow you time to think through what you need to know and how to get the information you need.
2006-10-02 10:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-08-29 09:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking your mom and dad anything about your birth parents?? I know sometimes people adopting get to meet @ least the birth mother...
If that fails the only thing I can suggest is to snoop... when they aren't home search as best as you can to try and find something.. I hope that doesn't get you into trouble, but sometimes you gotta try whatever you can if you wanna get the truth.
Good Luck!
2006-10-02 10:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by seren_dipity_3 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all I beleive you have to be 18 to start looking at any records there are at the courthouse. Because you are still a minor and not allowed to get any information like that. Once you are of age then I suggest you go to the city hall/ courthouse (whereever they keep the birth records) in the city of you birth and get a coppy of your birth ceritificate (that is if you don't all ready have oone from your adoptive partents). On that paper will be the names of your birth parents and where they lived at the time of your birth. Then your next sstep will probably be checking out where they are now either by looking up in the phone book/calloing informnation in that city, doing an on-line search with the limited information you have, checking out the library in that samw town, poszsible hiring a private decetive to help you. Please remember you may get hurt because they gave you up to 2 wounderful partents that you have had your entire life and they may not want you back in their lives or they may not even know that you exist (your biirth father that is), or they may want to get to know you and that might strain your relationship with your parents.
Bottem line be considerate of your parents feelings and check with them before proceeding so you don't hurt them. They choose you out of all the children they couldhave adoptied and that is great. They love you and want the best for you and if that means finding your birth parents then they might be willing to help you as well.
I wish you the best in your search and I hope you find what you are looking for. Who knows it just might be in your own back yard(your adoptive parents). Good luck!
2006-10-02 10:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by victoria b 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
idk how i can help but i feel the same way i'm 13 too and waz adopted and i've always wanted 2 find my birth parents 2. I wish you luck with your search!
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2006-10-02 09:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was never really good at hide and go seek. They may be hiding under the bed (or you can check the closet). They are both good hiding places.
2006-10-02 09:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋