Do you girls get mad if your boyfriend/husband go to the strip club? Would you be mad if they got lap dances?
2006-10-02 09:42:30 · 9 answers · asked by Molly323 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope my wife would be upset if I went to a strip club and or got lap dances. To me, that is disrespecting her and sends a subconscious message to her that her body is not enough for me. I would feel the same way if she went to watch male strippers and can not ask her to be okay with something I would not be okay with...If I need a stripper, I am sure she will strip for me, I do not need to go anyplace else...
2006-10-02 09:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely be mad if my man got a lap dance.. but going to the strip club would be okay. I mean.. I wouldn't encourage him to go, but I really can't get mad about it. I would just make it clear that I wouldn't have sex with him when he came home. I wouldn't have my man getting all turned on by some chick and then coming home to me..
2006-10-02 16:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by ashwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know this is a question that before i could have answered with a definate absolutely not but now that my cheating ex husband is out of my life, i can say that my boyfriend now has told me he goes once in a while with friends from work not something that he has to do but he will go with the boys once in a while i completely trust my boyfriend so if he chooses to go that is up to him but my ex husband cheated all the time so hell no without trust i do not think it is a good idea.
2006-10-02 16:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by ~~*Brownie*~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It used to INFURIATE me when my man would go out to the boobie bars. Id get so jealous. I always wondered, why am I not enough he has to go see other boobs. But he always came home "in a great mood". I thought strip clubs were like they are in the movies. Well i went with him one time. And its totally harmless. Now i encourage it so he can come home and take out his happiness on me. Ive also realized, if you tell him, "go have fun" and act like it doesnt bother you, that takes a lot of the fun out of them going and they dont go as much.
2006-10-02 16:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by Let ME be President! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind my boyfriend going or getting a lap dance. As long as I'm not there watching, it's fine w/ me.. LOL He goes once in a while, so it's ok...
2006-10-02 16:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strip Clubs are completely harmless....Me and my buddies go all the time and our girlfriends used to get pissed off...So we started taking them and now they all like to go...It's a good time!
2006-10-02 16:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by djjjc11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I will not... as long as they are not doing anything at the club but watch.... I will actually go with him to watch as well.... it only spices up your relationship.....
They can watch all you want... all it does is get them ready and wanting you when they get home.....
unless they don't want you... then that is another topic in itself and you have bigger issues to deal with.
2006-10-02 16:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by Tayo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. If I am in actual relationship, I trust him a lot. I am usually fine when it comes to that stuff.
2006-10-02 16:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHHH..........DANG I WOULD HATE DAT !!!
2006-10-02 16:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by kissasiss_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋